It hurts

there are two sides to every story did anyone ever think to ask what was going on her end instead of blindingly accepting one side?

yea but there are bias allegations here what we have here is someone who is bitter that they were rejected and trying to start a hunt before the other side can make their claims ever asked what happened behind closed doors being nice doesnt not win the heart doing favors doesnt either it sounds like he forced too much on the other and expected something else in return

I usually don't take things like this at face value but even if there's "another side" to this story, from OP's description this person sounds manipulative and has used gas lighting tactics against him throughout the course of the relationship. That's a big red flag to me, bias or not.

So its the other 2 people's fault, and not hers makes sense. Nevermind that one of these dudes swore she could do no wrong even after she broke up with him and defended her when people called her a whore. 2 sides to the story. These dudes dont know each other prior to dating infact the op claimed her ex he thought was an asshole why do they both have the same story then? Fake news.

where did i say it was the other 2's fault but he seems to know someone else this happened to he knew what events happened prior with the other guy so why would they have the same story when both were rejected and wanted to get back at her by posting in the forums unless they really wanted the other to look bad

@vaan: I totally agree. This is still an online forum. Everyone can read whats happening here. If you are a crybaby, fine but if you want to humilate someone it is not okay. We aint therapist. Call the ambulance if you are traumatized. But we will not headpet you because something went wrong with your life. Man up

and you Floof where do you get off making a scene on something that should of been private and broadcasting it out to the public but it be alright if someone did the same to you as well?

You kinda lost me, and the other dude didnt post anything in the forums. He mostly told his closest friends. He did warn this dude to watch out with her along with another female user on this site who warned him as stated by him before. But its whatever, not like i didnt know her while she was active her and knew her personality