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hiretsunaotaku
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ffdreamer
Bruce @ffdreamer commented on It hurts
Sep 25, 19 at 4:53am
Standard shit , nothing new. Just Embrase the pain, It will make you stronger and grow to the right direction . The one you love is gone, Guess what, there are a million more where that come from.
hiretsunaotaku
Sep 25, 19 at 4:57am
Take a break for a while. Go out with friends, pursue some new hobbies, make new friends. It'll make you feel better
hakutaku
Sep 25, 19 at 5:32am
I witnessed it,bro.I’m sorry about what happened to you.Some people aren’t good with a LDR(I myself just accept the fact quickly)..
unknown_marauder
I've been in your shoes man. It sucks, it really does. It is going to hurt for a while. The best advice I can give you is to talk with people. Hang out with friends, make new friends and next time take it slower. Keep some walls up
erendel
Jessie @erendel commented on It hurts
Sep 25, 19 at 8:47am
I'm sorry to hear what happened. I hope you'll be okay.
squeakietoy
Sep 25, 19 at 9:36am
Its nearly impossible to listen to others warnings while being head over heels for someone. Im sorry things went the way they did, and I hope that you can find someone or something to help patch the shattering experience youve had. Hang in there...
fulcrum
Why do I have the feeling I know this person your talking about... anyways I'm sorry this happen to you but as they say move on and don't look back. Also stay away from damage relationships or at least the ones who don't even try get better/ improve themselves they will just drag you down with them into bottomless pit.  i know it from exp.. anyways you can get better. ps: keep any records u have on her just in case she pulls something to ruin your life.. it most likely wont happen but in this age sometimes people can be spiteful...
seafarer
Sep 25, 19 at 10:36am
Hey There ! i Don't know you , You don't know me , i'm just stranger passing thru . me myself also been saved by wandering strangers that decide to butt in and gave me an advice. so today i hope i can be a stranger that hopefully give you strength to overcome this. i know how you feel because i'v been there . in my case it's a relationship that's been going on for 8 years so you imagine the pain that's thousands time worse than yours. and yet i'm still here standing stronger than ever. turn your sadness into raw power for revenge , be in mind that the revenge im talking about is NOT a revenge for HURTING those who hurt you but revenge to show them that they have made the wrong choice on leaving you. Get revenge by getting better and stronger person, prove it to her you can still stand even after she crushed your heart into pieces. turn your sadness into power and start doing something positive ! what i did to overcome my broken heart 1st steps buy a heavy bag and boxing gloves. hits that bag while screaming as hard as i can, as many times as i can , release my emotion. 2nd steps make a routine schedule of working out . weight lifting running etc. these will take my mind out of her. 3rd steps gradually get rid stuffs that make me remember her (She made her choice so you should too , get over it) 4th steps try to go to group meeting or social gathering . Church or gym is the best place even thou if you are atheist trust me the company of others is really help. 5th steps try to get involved with your family event or gathering ,never disavow your family member, because their love is genuine love and will never fade. Finally when i meet my ex by coincidence i was able to say Hi and smile and walk away without any sign of sadness and weakness anymore :) it's feels like huge boulders that pinned me down has been disappeared and my revenge been served :). every person have a hobby and certain activity that they liked in my case it's sports, i don't know about you the point is do stuff that make you forget about her. that's it, it's sounds simple right? because it is that simple . only if you think it's complicated then it's becoming really complicated, it's all in your mind. make it simple. remember what doesn't kill you make you stronger OR disabled ! only you can decide this . Don't give up. I hope this help you overcome your pain.
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