What's the hardest part about dating YOU?

Categorizing that a quality that women want in a guy is Chick-Fil-A is probably the greatest thing I've seen today xDDDDDDDD

I just realised how anxious I am. I started ugly crying at a mere suggestion because I overthought it (it has happened before but not as bad and without a cause) and I feel so sorry for making him worry, it wasn't something that should have caused me that reaction but I am glad he hugged me and let me let it out before asking what's wrong. I need to have more trust.

Sometimes I'm amazing and often never get boring. Sometimes I'm a downer and full of repetitive speech (whether negative or positive).

For me its cause im a nice guy and typically put up with a lot more than most people cause i always have faith the other person will meet me halfway but it never happens

What about you is the more difficult/challenging aspect of being in a relationship? Hmm...well...I'm not clingy most of the time I don't care if I don't see the guy for a week or two weeks but three weeks then I text and text and call him if he doesn't text me first or reach out in any way. So, I can't say I'm clingy at all. but as for romantic sides not a lot of guys are into romantic stuff. I say the small things speak louder to men. Like buying a random pizza of their favorite kind. Or buying their favorite foods and cooking them or treating them to their favorite snacks. Buying something they need or giving them something they might want. Keeping them company and giving them comfort....ummm for me I guess it's average standards cause I'm pretty average I'm no Megan fox or Beyoncé. I guess the hardest is I won't commit to you I mean I won't cheat on you but I will need at least a year to say I love you to a man.. I'm dating..and mean it. I don't fall in love easily at all...sooo It take me a long time to feel it. And if I don't feel it I won't never say it and if I fuck up and say it I'll take it back. To me guys that fall in love too quickly or a matter of four months or less will just as quicker lose that love feeling or fall out of love easily and get bored easily. I'm also too chill I guess. Another problem is I won't move in with a guy. lol Too many issues with that cause I want to be in control...not the guy. I want the house in my name I want to be the one with a home to come back to if the guy cheats on me and I come home early then I won't be the homeless one he will I can just kick him out if things don't work out or if he the bored type. I rather be safe then sorry. I need and crave concrete foundation more than I need love and sex...I guess I can learn to take risks....but I won't I tried too many times and fail at it to just play it safe now and think ahead. Think about everything..Plus the kids will have my last name as well. If I'm putting in the 9 months out of 12 months to create them and their bones...and skin..and brain..etc..then rest assure their getting mommy last name. Their mine legacy too. I'm not giving up my last name for a man. Take my heart sure..take my body and ruin it with kids and make me fat sure..give me stretch marks..sure okay...but refuse the right for me to name them after my last name as well nope not gonna happen...plus after the man ruin me he might get a tighter woman and younger much later in life anyways after he done ruin me physically..and make me loose pig. My daddy would kill me if I didn't put my last name down on my son....or daughter. Especially if he's just a merely little boyfriend that knock me up...that just means he isn't willing to commit to me halfway at least..but a husband..heck a husband has more rights but a boyfriend..heck no..even if he's a husband my last name gonna be in there somewhere...so my son can put down the last name he thinks is there for him the most and the parent that stayed with him and raise him. The right last name. AND THAT RIGHT THERE MIGHT BE A DEAL BREAKER FOR MOST MEN.BUT still...mommy last name is gonna be there..so hold my beer.

ok but what if you get married? where was that in your argument? would you also refuse your husbands last name? If having sex is that bad (or rather you want to have the right to name your child because and I quote " If I'm putting in the 9 months out of 12 months to create them and their bones...and skin..and brain..etc..then rest assure their getting mommy last name," why dont you simply adopt a child instead?

I mention that in my post and there's no argument I want my last name and I want to keep my last name after marriage it's more common for women to do so hell my mom doesn't have my dad's last name. My sister didn't take her husband last name either. I know people that kept there last name after marriage it's not uncommon. The woman does have all the rights to name her child after her last name just because some people follow traditions doesn't mean other families do or follow the same certain traditions. Not everybody follow the same stuff. But like I said either way husband or boyfriend the child with have my last name there somewhere. I never mention adopting that why it wasn't mention in my post. I can adopt yes.