The red lines in relationships

We all have those red light moments when it comes to relationships as I have multiple as I want to see what is everyone else's let red lights. My biggest red lights when it comes to someone that wants to be in a relationship with me I tell people that I'm nobodies pet and I'm nobodies dog or toy to play with. But when it comes to those big red lights that I would literally say that this is not going to work is when a promise is made and then broken but more than anything it's just trust. Seriously when it comes down to looks or the way that you are treated or just certain things etc. but what is those red lights in a relationship for you?

Well, I've never been in a relationship myself, but I do have some thoughts from other peoples' relationships that I've observed over the years and of things you frequently see from women on online dating sites and stuff. The first and most obvious one is cheating because, well... It's cheating. In my book, if you cheat, you're out. Another is women that are very controlling. I've seen this in another of friends' relationships. One in particular stands out. She had a freaking curfew for him! And he wasn't like a crazy guy or anything, he was about as responsible and straight-laced as it gets. I remember one time some mutual friends were visiting from out of town, and he was in a rush to finish because if he wasn't home by 7, his girlfriend would "kick his ass". And another time she dragged him to a bridal shower on Superbowl Sunday. Like, he had to ask her permission to do pretty much anything. I'm sorry, no woman is worth putting up with shit like that for. Finally, one that I've observed on online dating is women who talk excessively about hobbies they could not possibly afford, particularly travel and vacations. There are a LOT of shallow/toxic women and gold diggers in online dating. Fuck them

For me it'd be gold diggers ofc. Only difference between them and a dog is the dog is more loyal and your friends will look at ya funny if ya say ya smashed. Otherwise its when she gives you a freinds or me ultimatum