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Aggressive upon rejection?

cupcakerin
Dunno if there is a term for these kind of people? Most of the time I've seen it happen to girls online (let's assume they were actually girls) whether it is in forums, comment sections, games, you name it. Like some guy is gonna be flirting with her and about as soon as he understands he's not gonna get any booty (saying it like this because sometime being told "no" isn't enough), he drops all respect and politeness he may have had before and start getting really aggressive. Starts dropping insults and everything because yeah not getting anything anyway! Anyhow what inspired me to make this thread is that it just happened to me on a date/chat site. Don't worry I know I can just block people so I'm fine. What happened long story short, the basic "hello how are you, asl" introduction, then he asked my first name and a pic of me. I refused those information and precised that's kind of creepy and most people prefer to keep a certain anonymity online, especially with people they just met a minute ago. The conversation then escalated into a one-sided rant and shitstorm of insults. So this is just my assumption that he acted like this because I rejected him? Or at least his "suggestions". This is kind of fucked up to be honest. Any idea why people can't just accept it and move on? Has something like this happened to you before or you've seen it happen to someone else?
otakueaterd
with me I don't do all that because the fact that if you're trying to jump the bone that someone that you just met is kind of shallow if you don't even know their name or even know anything about them because you don't know if they are in a relationship or anything like that so getting to know the person is the best thing you can do. with me I wait three or four months before asking for the person's name and number so I can get to know the person and know that we have some sort of connection and know that we are friends of some sort. seriously I have dated women that are Mama's girls, psychopaths, and even girls that are probably going to end up being Catwoman plus former rape victims or just brutally damaged women that either are or are not ready for a relationship. but I always tried to treat women the way that they want to be treated and the way that the ACT is also a crucial aspect to the things that happen when it comes down to the relationship scale. That's why I'm here right now trying to find someone that is may not be ready for a relationship or even waiting for that perfect guy to walk through their door as that's why I'm always wanting to work as hard as I can and grow as a person to show that I truly know that there is someone out there for me because everybody has ever told me that. The point of what I'm trying to say is men and women do this when they are rejected or when they feel like the relationship isn't going the way that they thought it was going to go because it always happens no matter who is at fault because it's always going to happen no matter the time or date or year as you just need to follow the signs and see who is really there for that person and not just there for themselves.
judgmentoftherain
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beherit
"Dunno if there is a term for these kind of people?" Yeah, they're called assholes. Luckily I have never encountered such people, but it's unfortunate that others have. If this solely happens online hopefully it can be limited to online, but even then, as I mentioned on a different topic, it can become bad if they take their rejection so badly they start spreading rumors about the person who rejected them.
hakutaku
Those people's self-esteem issues.. They are obviously short-tempered, have no idea of courtesy...*Sighs I don't even want to respond to their "How is it going"/"what's up" unless I'm in the mood to test strangers.A few of them may be interesting~
sampham
sounds like me. I don't do what you described though. like I don't start yelling. also, I don't really ask for pictures. but my self esteem would drop temporarily if I was rejected.
foo_fighter
Just laugh it off and move on. Some people are jerks no matter what. If you want more people like that, you can google niceguys or nicegirls. here's a sample https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVhG9cjJOks
densetsu_no_baka
I hate the people that do this crap. It makes girls much more nervous about talking to people. Typically when I actually get rejected (as opposed to ghosted), I thank the girl for being straight with me and spending any time she did talking to me. Unless she was just needlessly mean about it. I have lived the nightmare scenario of having a girl I just asked out start insulting me. I didn't flip out or anything, but I was pissed off and very hurt by it.
reclaw
Jan 16, 19 at 6:07am
Typical nice guys and nice girls.
hakutaku
@foo-fighter That video is so fun~! At times it simply takes a few hours/days to know some "nice" people's true-selves~~I would hug them tight even if they were assholes in the cases that they were knowledge/truth-seekers *Sighs I haven't dealt with many of them because I find they are difficult to talk to! They just want to talk about shallow stuff or attempt to trespass my boundaries~
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