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hakutaku
@LaughingFox I remember u also got INTJ in that test, right? XD..People who have those personality traits are really tough in the eyes of ordinary people!!Too "strong"! Not romantic! Hard to manipulate/seduce!...! Not white knights!!!
hakutaku
@Ed diseased breasts!
beherit
Ed, try saying that again if you get one from someone who's underage. Warmblood, as long as society becomes more polarized, then sadly yes, I don't see the situation improving either. Peterson's voice is funny, I wonder how much of its uniqueness makes it that much easier for people to listen to him talk about stuff most people would write off as "boring", compared to people like Noam Chomsky.
laughingfox
@Enki- True I did however- in my psych evaluations for my government job/tests I came out with INTJ 53% INFJ 47% so I'm pretty in the middle- trust me I'm more than capable of being very passionate and romantic xD but this is what I mean by "balanced" I like to think it's a good thing <n.n> Regardless I know what you are saying how people struggle with our persona's far too independent for our own good. Which is funny when you see allllllll these posts on twitter of people complaining/saying what their dream partner should be like- then when they get it they just don't know what to do with themselves or find it boring xD and That- is quite Laughable.
hakutaku
Those people are impatient!
comfyboi
This video hits me deep down. I agree with a lot of the points in this video. It's definitely hard finding a significant other in today's world. We all want all these perfect little things in a potential partner and that in my opinion builds up the ego of the human mind. An example of this is just like what he said in the video about the middle age woman wanting some golden man. Thanks for sharing this video, I'll be sure to check out his book.
gundamu
Yes, as another INTJ I can also testify that I've more or less had the same experience with dating. Especially with the whole "I've lost relationship opportunities as well because I wouldn't feed into manipulative behaviours by certain females"-part. :u
warmblood2
@comfyboi I'm glad I could be helpful.
dekunut
It reminds me of an article about the Geek Social Fallacies. http://www.plausiblydeniable.com/opinion/gsf.html Unfortunately I have watched a close friend of mine IRL have his life turned upside down twice by 2 of his former girlfriends. I will never forget his first girlfriend who would constantly be chastising him, and would in front of his friends question out loud 'why am I even dating you' "jokingly". He never stood up for himself, and when people confronted her she would threaten to overdose on meds. The fact he let this happen to him for an entire year (looking back his relationship with her was somewhere between 1-2 years), and he even gave her a promise ring after high school, was honestly just sad to watch. I think one issue that people have now a days when it comes to relationships both romantic and non-romantic is that they are too afraid to confront someone out of fear of angering, or losing them. Confrontations in a healthy relationship do not damage the relationship, but strengthen it, as it allows both parties to tackle an issue and to fix it, growing from it. EDIT: Did some proof-reading fixes
laughingfox
@dekunut- That's another thing to your point (on which I agree) people are being brainwashed into confrontations being toxic or negative in any form. Rather than a form of communication. So I don't think this helps...so many people i've met can't communicate their feelings healthily to their partners. Also I'm completely NOT suggesting that if the Confrontation is accompanied by "MORTAL KOMBAAAAAAAAT!" and ends with "FOXTALITY" that is healthy at all. xD
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