Infatuation vs Love

PK While I do agree with being wise about it. Let's be real here. No teenager first falling in love, is going to listen to this advice. To them they are special, they are different, Until they aren't and it all come's crashing down. You've been a teenager, I imagine you know, No matter what your friend's or parents said about the relationship, Unless it was positive it went out of of the other ear. Also while single parents aren't ideal, If we want to look at things more longterm, Western countries like the U.S. are already popping out too few babies to sustain the economy we have. On a negative birthrate to be specific. Plus considering I have a brother from a single parent mother, I'm sure they much rather exist than not exist. Marriage is honestly a scam to begin with. Over 50% end in divorce, most before even half a decade. With how family court's work, men are screwed with them aswell. With how law's are right now, Marriage isn't a smart thing to do in general. Love is a fantastic feeling, your first is definitely intense. But if you think any teen is going to be wise about their first time, you're under some natural drugs my friend XD. I agree with the sentiment however.

Regardless of the infatuation effect, and how much it would be nice to try to ward our younger peers (Or, even older peers) from falling for it, it's impossible to prevent a first love from blossoming in my opinion. Sadly, for many, they have to go through a lot of heart break before they realize what true love is. Then, the big obstacle, is finding someone who actually understands the power of "I love you" before falling for the same trap. Real love, whether we like it or not, takes time to form.

On another note, love is not a simple one time affection. Love should be forged, nurtured and grown over a lifetime. True love is a beautiful, if not almost impossible thing, but it is by no means unobtainable. Want love? Change you're outlook, change your thoughts and change your world.