How does it feel to be single?

Like dying inside well for me it is. Well I guess cuz I’m engaged and me and my feiance broke up once now we are back together

I wholeheartedly agree with everything Daruma said. But wait, don't such feelings disqualify us from being relationship eligible according to every self-proclaimed dating counselor on the internets? Ugh -rolls eyes-

Being single is like stepping out of the shower naked, going straight downstairs without drying off, then blaring loud music while you brandish a longsword and practicing the H.E.M.A. forms with the simple gratitude that nobody sees what the hell you are doing. (Yes, that could be taken figuratively or literally.) Whether the thought of that makes you laugh at the absurdity of what you do, or feel kinda pathetic about yourself, shows a lot about whether or not you have the right mindset to be single.

at times im like WOOT SINGLE...then others im like..BOOO SINGLE Like I would love to find someone in my town ,but it so small and no one really likes anime here it stinks. and to many young guys hit on me and im LIKE NO THANKS,I had so many issues dating younger guys im like I need a MAN,who knows what he wants. i think it during the holidays it when im like AWWW wish i had someone

Time. Actually having time to do stuff. Like being in a relationship is wonderful and all but I've noticed that I have a lot more free time when I'm single. Maybe I'm just too clingy and try to focus on my partner too much to the point that I don't care for my own needs, but maybe not. Still even if being single offers more freedom, I would rather have someone by my side.

I spent a really large portion of my life not caring, it wasn't until a while after I finished my associate's degree that it sort of hit me, that I've just been letting crushes disappear out of my life with no attempt. It's funny because I've had people tell me this stuff just happens, but I was nothing but myself for over 20 years, not once did I just land into something. The loneliness started building up a lot. I ended up going on a date with some girl at one of my old jobs... Went well only she neglected to tell me she had just entered a relationship with some other guy. Then I developed big trust issues... So it's kind of like, I like the single life because I don't get hurt, but I'm lonely and crave finding someone I feel is trustworthy, in addition to that connection. Fml haha.

Yeah while you don't have the stress of wondering if your partner is staying faithful, kr having to remember everything, kt can really be lonely to. Especially if you don't have a lot of friends. Like for me I have a very young daughter, and it can sometimes be overwhelming being alone without having someone to just hold you for a while. But that's just me.