Rape

I know that a lot of people will hate me for saying this but like the topic of rape some people don't have evidence but at the same time people should not just in foot weigh at it as if there is nothing that people can do. like The Bill Cosby incidents that are happening right now where he is being sent to life after everything that has already happened and people are now coming forward to say that he has sexually assaulted people and now he is being put to jail when even some of them have lied about him sexually assaulting them. it is truly crazy how the people that have seriously been raped have to live with the pain of feeling like it will happen again. I have known people that have been raped when they were young and even those people that have been raped all their lives until they became adults. seriously I feel bad for those people in those children that have to live with their lives as if they are toys or dolls. They don't call it the dark web for nothing as the dark web can tell you a lot about the world and I feel that people need to stop letting those who sexually assault people go especially with those kids who have to deal with the abuse and even animals as well. I'm sorry if it sounds like I am making excuses or causing problems in any way or bring bad memories up but it's truly bad that people have to go through this and then others may feel sorry for them but does nothing or Others May laugh with them for having to go through that situation or even for Worse get pitted for getting raped but end up finding out that those people are just wanting the same experience as everyone else that caused the pain in the first place.....I don't know if people understand what I'm saying but it's seriously messed up that no one is trying to change and only willing to watch the torture happen behind closed doors and behind eyes. Seriously so many movies have shown stuff like this happen to children and adults but then when they see it in front of their eyes they either trying to get help or just make it seem like it never happened.....I've known some people and I've dated some people that have been raped in their lives and I wish that I could help but I know that I can't because the fact that I live so far away.....

It seems more or less a lot of the false stuff or accusations happens more in the higher up political/actor domain and where it’s happening the most for accusations. Where the power is of the men and women that are up there.

And one of the comments that I've read here that talked about how people believe white women over black men is actually fully true and I'm not even going to lie about this because the fact that it actually happened. When I was in high school I used to date this one girl who would cause me more hell than anyone. And people would believe her 9 times out of 10 because of the fact that she came up first with the accusations as she literally told people that I raped her I never raped any woman and I never will as she trying to make everyone believe that I did something like that and so I ended up getting suspended from school as she wanted to literally put me to jail, got frustrated because I was not in jail. It's hard for African Americans to not look like the bad guy when a crazy white woman tries to literally plead a case that she caused on her own as I respect women and I would not do something so vile. now that I look back at everything that she put me through I am glad that I never married her because I feel like if it happened now she would have literally put me to jail.

Daggerfella, I agree with you wholeheartedly about how the media handles it. It’s sickening the gossip they air as fact with zero accountability. There is no law or policy that’s going to work 100% for everybody and every situation. I suggested a lie detector test not to prove guilt, but show innocence under the assumption that you are innocent until proven guilty. No, it’s not perfect, and it’s not to get you proven not guilty in court. But if you take the test and you pass. The people around you, your friends, your family, your coworkers are more likely to believe you and stand behind you. You’re less likely to have your reputation ruined. But because it doesn’t work 100% of the time for every situation and every person, you guys want to deny it as being completely useless? In that kind of a dire situation, why on earth would you throw out any tool that had a chance to helping you out of that situation. If people are going to believe you’re guilty simply for being male, wouldn’t you want something that would at least create a shadow of a doubt about your guilt in their minds? I didn’t force the test on someone who accused me. I forced it on a 19-year-old kid that turned out to be a victim of circumstance. A girl who had locked her self in her own room before passing out, woke up naked, feeling like she had been fked. The guy in question, was the only other person she remembers being home that night. When I took him down to get tested, he was angry and nervous as hell. He didn’t pass all the questions, like whether or not he ever tried to cop a feel, or if he tried to see her naked. However, when he was asked if he ever tried to have sex with her or rape her, he passed those questions without a hiccup despite being asked repeatedly in multiple ways by a man that was an expert at tripping people up. Seeing his answers and results convinced me and everyone else in that household that he was innocent, including the girl who thought he did it. But I’m sure you’re youtube knowledge is right and my own personal experience is wrong. Since it won’t work 100% of the time in every situation for everyone, it totally not worth even considering. Think for a second where that kid would have been if everyone was that close minded. Yeah, he was pissed and refused to even speak to her to accept her apology for weeks. But after he calmed down and stopped thinking about only his own situation, he realized how f’d up a situation she was in. And the lie detector test he went through was nothing in comparison. There are real victims on both sides of the argument. The problem is when people become close minded and jump to conclusions without any facts or proof. And proof isn’t always physical evidence. In most cases it’s simply he said, she said. It’s not a question of did it happen. It’s a question of if it’s consensual or not. How does someone who was unconscious prove that’s how it happened?

The real issue this thread should have been discussing is the media and how screwed up it is. And how messed up our society is for blindly following along to their tune. What Brett Kavanaugh is being accused of could pretty much apply to every male friend I have when they were in their 20’s and drinking and partying. Brett Kavanaugh isn’t even being accused of rape, which has been the main topic in this form. How many of your friends have gotten to carried away hitting on a girl, or done something stupid drunk. The woman in this instance has stated she wasn’t raped. But sexually harassed at a college party. This probably isn’t a completely false accusation. But does it warrant what’s happening now so many years later. Half the men AND women in the country could be accused of something similar. Or am I misinformed?

To anyone who thinks I'm defending rapist or sexual predators. I'm not. To anyone who reported me or anyone else in this thread for voicing their own opinion. Whether or not you agree is besides the point. They have the gall to actually speak up. If they're disappointed because people are scared to do the right thing, that's their problem. They are allowed to vent and get shit off their chest here. If they're being respectful and you just don't like their opinion then I'ma need you to...