Can People Just Stop Being Creepy and Hostile

theres some weird people, thats why im here i looked up vile and extremely unpleasant is not nice but comments that are long i skip, its not my kinda thread

@takoyakimo - Basically what space cadet said. Not saying you're guilty of any of that but with a mindset that vile, toxic and self-centered then none of us would be surprised if you yourself are a part of the problem. We're not shutting you down for your opinion but we have every right to believe that what you're saying is bloody stupid. Stop assuming shit about people you don't know, stop using your bad experiences to nullify the experiences of others, stop expecting people to respond to you when they're under no obligation to and and stop blaming the victim when they did nothing wrong, the creeps are ALWAYS the problem so get that through your thick skull - don't enable that shit. Also for people dealing with harrassment, just do what Daggerfella said - that's a good way of dealing with them.

To be honest weird is good to me, not like creepy I am gonna put you in my closet listen to Madonna while crying and putting on makeup weird... but more just quirky and even kinky is all ok. I cannot say I have actually ever requested nudes, but I don't think such a request is a bad or amoral. Its more a question of timing and depth of the relationship. Even then I personally am old school, legit I am the guy that holds hands and gives a kiss at the end of the first date, so the prospect of asking for nudes over the net seems far fetched but not amoral as morality is relative to the situation

who's defending who? I'm not defending anyone. I honestly couldn't care less about any "chick" on this site. If I haven't met you, spoke to you or seen you on Skype or something, to me, you're a guy posing as a chick for attention or you're a guy being himself. That's my mentality. So when I speak on here to anyone, just note that unless you've proven to me beyond a shadow of doubt, you have a dick and I'm not interested. Especially if you have nothing but anime pics all over your page. That still doesn't mean I'm gonna let bullshit slide. Stop being a creep. If creeps have feelings too then Even chicks with dicks deserve respect. Shut up or sign off

@Captain Monteray Jack - I absolutely agree with you! There's nothing inherently wrong with kinky talk or asking for nudes but I always feel there has to be some actual time spent with each other, a mutual respect and understanding - actually making friends and feeling comfortable with each other. Then I think if both people are okay with that stuff then I see absolutely nothing wrong with that! I'll admit, I like to talk about lewd stuff and I can get cheeky and ask for that stuff from a girl I like or a partner but if they're not comfortable then a no is a no - I always just back up, apologise if I made them uncomfortable and go back to a more SFW conversation. I'm honest but I feel I'm honest to a fault sometimes and I feel bad in case I offend people I care about :/ @Kichigai - That's a good life lesson there, I think everyone can learn from that!

I will say I agree with the Dr and I will add its creepy as all hell to have a lot of pics and not one of your self, thats real creepy. So many people here act all secretive and still act like they are trying to be friends.... its like Whoaaah hold up why you so afraid to open up? No judgement here... be you... just be you, let me know you.. don't hide the real you and act like you wanna be friends, thats creepy and idiotic

Sorry guys...didnt know people were so bothered by me sending nudes, i can stop. Edit: i'll just post on my gallery in case someone wants to see