What Men Secretly Want

I don't think I secretly want anything. Just finding some topics in common that we both are interested talking about. That's all. ...But I'm biased towards skirts. I must admit that lol

We should discuss "what women secretly want " as well. But such topics are somewhat generalized hah... Hmm....It reminds me of Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory ..and a quote of Mencius's "The desire for food and sex is nature"...食色性也...

That sounds good too enki. Knowing the opinions of what both genders want compare to what articles try to portray. Like what do women look for first when it comes to the desire of wanting to say yes to a guy with a first date and so on. Felt, what do you consider too demanding with women? What if you were asked not to date other women while dating the current woman? Or not lay on the pressure after being told no on certain things? Or are you talking about more drastic requests like man under the woman's thumb kind of thing?

Secretly? A few Million Dollars, a life supply of steak, and allowed to be as lazy as I want without ever having to get out of bed. But... that's not really a secret either. XD Really I don't hold any 'secret' wants. I just state outright what I want. Either a girl isn't interested anymore or can't give me what I want, which then it will just be settling which I don't do. Usually I either get respect for being so open on what I want *Shrug*. The necessities for longterm relationship. -Affectionate person -Sexual Person, Meaning not going to only have sex with me once a week during our marriage for no reason at all. -Honest -Open Minded, Not going to be with someone who can never admit they're wrong. -Takes care of themselves, Since I exercise, I expect them to stick to being healthy as well -Wants children(And is willing to be a stay at home parent when they are born, OR has a well paying enough job and is willing to let me be the stay at home parent. I don't care about either, But Not going to leave the kids to be parented half the day by a daycare center instead of their own parents.) -Not in Poly shit. Just not for me. -Not an Easy girl. Many may find this 'sexist' but it's just a preference, if a girls been with twenty guys by they hit twenty, it just turns me off them. All for them living the life they want, but that life just so happens not to be with me. I just expect from my partner what I expect from myself. So it's not really something I keep secret from others. Especially my SO, because all that is a lack of communication. If they aren't what I want or I what they want, then so be it.

Hmm. Well i suppose i should at least make a serious post here. Want honesty, i dont like lacking communication and honesty, because it just breaks things down. And tbh, finding out about the dishonesty hurts. I just want Comfortable companionship. Like we can go see a movie, watch a show, go out, or just sit in a room not needing to do or say anything. Ofc all the normal "dating" things too. Like some private affection or "fun" time. But ive dated enough girls to know that the ones that werent gonna work, found anytime it was silent to be "awkward"