Why women should take risks and responsibility

Hmm... The only sad thing here is that people still think that such "inequalities" exist. Male and female act different from one another. Why is that such a bad thing that you'd feel the need to fill society with blank sheets of paper? Let us all act in the way that we good damn please. smh.

I really doubt that you can "fix" dating. You just have to deal with it, if you are a male, dating will be much harder and more demanding. But on the other hand if you are a male, you don't have periods and you are much stronger than females. So yea, both genders have different perks. My tip would be: deal with it. Want a girlfriend, do your job, work hard to get one. Or just drop all that dating stuff away. A lot of men are dropping out, these days its normal.

I agree with what you said. I think is stupid that I "have" to wait that the guy confesses. I really wanna change this mind seat, that men is the one to make the first move, if I ever have the opportunity to confess myself I wanna do it. When I was 13 a boy confessed to me, and I had a really hard time telling him that I liked him too (in the end we didn't started cuz he was going to move out of country and I didn't wanted a LTR). It's so embarrassing to look back, it is so easy to say "I love you too". :/ But that's the media fault. Girls usually watch romance stories that 99% of the time the man confesses first. We are brainwashed by this stereotype. I don't remember the name of the movie, but I remember watching a love story about a girl wanted to propose his lover on February 29th, cuz "that's the only day that girls can propouse". ://

Not much use applying logic to an inherently illogical situation, or trying to fix what can't be fixed. The dating system in the west is a broken mess but no one wants to admit it out of fear of seeming like a crybaby loser. Besides, it's all people know, so they're gonna stick with it even if it is broken. All you can do is avoid it. That doesn't mean you have to be alone however. Every guy I know has given up on white women and refuses to date them, and I really can't say I blame them. Try to find yourself a nice foreign girl who hasn't been corrupted by western culture. Sure the 'here and now' is more convenient, but it comes at the price of dropping all standards and self respect. There's plenty of loving caring decent women out there who will pursue you and who know the meaning of loyalty. The alternative is convincing yourself the shitty situation we're in is fine like what all other mindless male sheep here do, and go throw yourself at each and every girl you see regardless of how fat stupid ugly and whorish they might be. But you're not gonna change anything, not unless you somehow manage to convince millions of other men to boycott women until they get their act together, and good luck doing that.

Not all american women shoukd be bypassed for foreign women. Plus not all men are stronger than women. I met a few guys i could out strength and I'm not very strong. I think it differs with each women. Some will make the first move while others wait to see if the guy will, showing he is interested in them. Though i can't argue that men have more work on the date. They get the courage to ask her out, plan the date, try to impress her, and pays for it. Women though also tries to impress the man too cuz they wamt to come off as appealing if they feel a desire towards them and wishes for more dates.

Grass is greener on other side. Why people always think that foreign girls are better than the ones they have in their country? Shit is fucked up all over the world. There is no such country where women are loving and carrying and doing everything you want them to do. Every country has all kinds of women. China has fk up dating "system" same goes for japan. Europe is basically same as USA. And middle east just... don't. Try to look for traits, not location. Location is not going to fix your problems. No one says that EVERY single man is stronger than EVERY single woman. Cmon can't you use some basic logic. Men are biologically stronger than women. That's why in sports males and females are separated.

@Creature of Habit I never understood that either. People are the goddamn same in many ways no matter where you go, we may have different cultures and lifestyles but since we're all human all of the positive and negative traits of society that we have will still manifest themselves in SOME form...If they didn't how could we even relate to each other? We'd just be aliens to each other pretty much.

This is a cultural and generation problem. Pay gap will existe for the next 50 years At the time of our grandparents, it was the men who would work more, as well, received more, while the wife would take care of your parents. With our parents that started to change, but wasn't an one night chance. Our generation are the ones that is going to change this, but this will only happen when the girls and boys that are working now get more promotions, and our parents stop working.