Do you have any unusual turn-offs?
Dyadka Yar @dyadka_yar
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Do you have any unusual turn-offs?
Dyadka Yar @dyadka_yar
@elhaym
I had to look MBTI up, at first I thought it was a local trucking company. Good news is that I care little to not at all about both MBTIs.
Vagene @ahuman
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Vagene @ahuman
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DEACTIVATED @swadian
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DEACTIVATED @swadian
When people makes everything about themselves regardless of the circumstances.
Oh? You're being harassed at work and your position is jeopardized? This upsets me so much because now I have to think about this and you just ruined my day, I need time alone now, thank you for being an asshole.
^ has actually happened to me.
八幡神 @naofumi94
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八幡神 @naofumi94
Well @swadian some people handle stress differently. If we were all the same things would be boring. Some people like to care for people like that
DEACTIVATED @swadian
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Red_Eyes_DeathGun @naofumi94
Being upset it's fine, disliking something happening to your partner it's fine, trying to diminish the magnitude of his/her issue by claiming yours it's superior and that you should be the one being given support... Errrrr not so much
I should had wrote better the previous comment
Amir @amir_bahram
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Amir @amir_bahram
@swadian
Like when people try to turn the attention on themselves even in inappropriate times?
DEACTIVATED @swadian
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Mahuri @amir_bahram
Yep.
That's what I wanted to imply, this is terrifying because it's so common out there and people take it for granted many times.
Worst case I saw, was of a friend of mine whose GF threw a tantrum about him not giving her enough attention and that maybe she should suicide... The guy had taken a day off to visit her grandma's funeral...
Veru @verucassault
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Veru @verucassault
@swadian
Yup. Your problems take a backseat because you are so strong and capable. Surely your problem can't be as bad as their's. Do I sound bitter?
Honestly this is a people thing, not a significant other thing. It just happens to magnify and pop up in relationships. The constant battle for who is more important. I've seen this in family relationships second hand, manifesting itself where two people are talking over each other to the point one of them is yelling. Why are you yelling? -_- my family has basically fell apart because of the imeasurable psychosis running rampant.
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VerucAssault @verucassault
Nobody's problems are always gonna be 100% reflected on others and fully empathized, because people takes issues and drama differently. For someone, the death of their whole family clan might be a slight inconvenience, while to someone else mistakenly drinking bitter milk by accident would be enough to jump from a bridge or blow their brains out.
Shit comes when someone's seriously needing the help and they push their agenda over yours to diminish your issues, my family has also fought many times (uncle's, aunt's) because they love playing my drama house is bigger than yours until they are fist Fighting each other
Retards
八幡神 @naofumi94
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八幡神 @naofumi94
I see what you @swadian maybe I misinterpret what you said but yes I understand that. Still there are people into that kind of person
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