Balance issues

I'm sure most people have noticed how horribly balanced things seem to be between available women vs men, not just here but pretty much everywhere. You ever stop to wonder why this is exactly? In reality the balance should be pretty even (unless you're living in a place like chana where they've been known to avoid having female children in some parts.) yet it seems like it's always 5+ guys per girl, which doesn't seem right at all. Did a large amount of single women just vanish into thin air or something? For every single guy you would think there would be a single girl (give or take), yet single women always seem to attract swarms of single guys offline and on while the opposite is never true (unless the guy is a rich celebrity or something). So why is this? After discussing this with a few other people the best theories we came up with was women putting relationships aside to focus on careers, or avoiding relationships completely for whatever reason. lesbians might also play a big role in this, since they're far more common place than homosexual men. There's also the idea of women seeking older men, but you'd think that would result in more single women around those older ages then which doesn't seem to be the case. Still, none of that seems to make up for such a huge imbalance. I've got no hard numbers here mind you for anything offline, just dumb observations. Although you can see the imbalance for yourself on this very site by checking on the newest members section. There's a never ending flood of new male users, but just one or two new female users every couple days. Some of them are even guys who put female by mistake or for some extra attention. Anyways, what are your thoughts on this?

Truth is, it actiually is balanced number wise. But women are more centered around your point of women being more active in their careers nowadays. And like fox queen said, stable ones are usually in a relations ship or just don't want drama in their life. Another thing, referencing what you said (5 guys after one girl). Truth is multiple people hit on multiple people, some people think that if they're single it's ok to flirt with everybody to see who is interested in them. So my point is, if you put yourself out there you'll meet more people. And funny thing is, people turn up when you least expect it

The amount of women vs men is about 50/50. Yes, women being with women is more common place these days but I wouldn't say it's more common than guys being gay.. I don't see an imbalance at all. Especially when it comes to young people since guys have commitment issues and whatnot when they're young.

Never really felt that way. Sure there are places where an imbalance seems to be but usually that is getting matched by another imbalance in the different direction. Since I am a straight guy I only made the experience that some girls lack commitment but that probably can be matched by some immature guys who feel the same. I disagree with the young part though even some mature "relationship thingies" seem to lack commitment from one or another side.

Well neeto, I think it has a lot to do with the fact that A) Women have more options if you look at the stats even under a 50/50 population on an online dating sites, men tend to send the most messages B) I think the fear factor plays here to, there are lots of ladies that will open their inbox to some very creepy messages pics, now we as men would love to open our inbox to some lovely coo coo pics, but ladies (usually) are not to fond of Dingus pics as a first communication lol. C) IRL is where you will see most success, and I dont mean at the bar or the club lol, Libraries are a great place to meet people (in general I mean) I mean just find a girl who looks interesting, ask if you can sit at the same table, what is she reading? comment on it, find some common ground, and be receptive to cues, focus on your breathing, keep your mind present.

It is an interesting illusion that goes on. I think that men are just more loudmouths about it and tend to make posts complaining about it in the forums. (example: I'm single and nobody loves me). I also hypothesize that women tend to be more careful seeking out relationships online by themselves. They tend to seek out men they know in their circle of friends and acquaintances. All just theory, though.

This is where the 80/20 rule might come into play and a couple other social things. Regardless ofmhow many wome there are tbh

Once you figure it out you’ll realize a whole new world. Research and observe, your close but not quite on the true mark of what is to be pondered yet. That or watch a bunch of stuff on YT, look at natural human instincts, variables strictly unique to humans, behavior patterns, personality targeting, how people operate and best lines of speech, positive energy, and being interesting, there’s a whole slew a things... don’t feel like going into detail though cause it’s easier to just do instead of talk about it But isn’t some dudes are just lucky, and it will never always be right place right time. Pfft, the second everyone realizes though it’s a game of interaction, and attraction though we’re gonna get a shit Storm XD It’s all a joke and a meme at this point