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hynsan
All I can say is that for now I want to enjoy my freedom. Just thinking on goin into a relationship gives me a headache. Thinking that I would go through jealousy, maybe becoming depressed and all those things that a relationship comes with gets me tired. Maybe in a long future I'll be manly in love or like someone that much or bored of been single that I would actually sai "yes"
enerezu
Oct 14, 15 at 6:53pm
maybe being single is a good thing... having a relationship is really a pain in the ass... too much drama...:/ if a person comes it'll easily be gone... "easy come, easy go"... but thats what life has too offer... we just have to make use of the present to be better when the right person comes...
saberwing
Depends really..... If I was to find somebody I would really spend my whole life with then I'd prefer it over being single. However that's such a rare...almost non-existent thing these days. Most couples can't even make it through a year and 95% of the marriages get divorced (usually over some stupid trivial matters too). So if I can't find somebody like that (and I most likely never will xD). Then I really don't mind being alone for the rest of my life. Was always a solo player anyway so meh. ^^
yaasshat
95% divorce rate? Not quite... Closer to 50%,but that's high too. Of course most relationships fail, because most people aren't serious and have no desire to make things work. Overall, both sides have benefits and pitfalls. If you're single, enjoy it. If you're in a relationship, enjoy it. Enjoy wherever you are in life or make changes so you can.
saberwing
@yaasshat Sorry about that. Allow me to correct myself... 50% get divorced, 30% stay together because of the kids and 15% are together because of financial issues since it's easier to live together. The point was that they do not genuinely care for each other. However I agree with your statement that you should enjoy life no matter if single or in relationship.
saberwing
Though I'm really curious what people think is love nowadays. xD
sunflower
The definition of love differs for everyone
momoichi
I think everyone one in this dating site agrees love is best xD Though only having to care about yourself is nice at times
horrormanga21
Love to me is sharing a special romantic bond and enjoying the little things in life my ideal date would be a candle lit picnic at night with a bonfire getting a huge blanket cuddling into them and look at the stars and the sun rise I swear I'm not romantic at all
saberwing
Well I asked the question so I guess it would be only fair to answer it myself. To me love is the feeling where you have such an affection for that special someone. That you would find a way to play soccer with moon only to make them laugh. When they laugh it makes you so alive and happy. And when they are sad you would give up your very existence to make them smile again. ^^
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