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^On the other hand it's very possible that he might run into someone that's crazy about how he looks now, people's tastes vary a lot when it comes to looks but yes, it is correct that the looks are basically the hook to pull people in (though that doesn't guarantee they're going to be the right person either). That being said though you're not going to meet someone who's worth it without continuously putting yourself out there anyway, I wish finding a partner was just a simple cause and effect process that followed a logical path of: Meet someone > share mutual interest in eachother > relationship. Buuut unfortunately emotions are irrational and things are never simple when it comes to relationships. You just gotta pick up the pieces and try again, though sometimes it is better to just take a break every now and again. My philosophy in life is that nothing worthwhile comes quickly or easily, that goes for good, fulfilling relationships also. I'd honestly advise you to try and do some soul searching to identify what you can do for now to get your mind off of things because I can definitely guarantee you that even if you find a relationship right now, that more than likely won't fill whatever void you have that's causing this depressing outlook. It isn't healthy at all.

Work on your fitness. Once you feel in decent shape you'll have more energy and you'll be able to focus on the things you enjoy and will have an outlet for excess energy with exercise. Ganbette.

just came back from Thanksgiving lunch with my family in the town hall. I have seen a good friend of mine still together with his gf from 6 years ago. Feels bad man. Also i think i have seen a 40 yo pedo kissing and hugging a 10 year old. Feels disgusted man.

I think no girl older than me would even want me. The problem is most dating sites have a limit of 18 years. That makes things difficult.