Laffantion struggles

Reasons: 1. Biology and instincts. Males are physically fully developed around 26 and women sense that. The perfect sexpartner for males is statisticly around 20. Attractivity high for woman is between 20 and 25. 2. Social status and money. Woman want economical stability, so they seek someone who can provide. Older man have usually more wealth then younger men (example graduaded, worked longer etc.).

Yep you're 19. You are just figuring things out in life. Focus on what you want to become and not the women. You will never win the chase. if you are a sucsessfull and confident man woman will sooner or later approach you. I witnessed it more than enough times.

Yeah, that right there. Set some goals of what you want to accomplish. I highly suggest Napoleon Hill's books. His works are about developing a positive mindset to accomplish goals. It's a skill that you develop.

I can pretty much identify as my oldest brother already this is not good. I don't wanna kill myself like he did when he was 24. I can't do that to my mother.

From a man who has spent years chasing things that didn't fulfil him: focus on being the best you you can be dude. I'm already 24 and I feel like I'm a completely different person to when I was 19. Tl;dr: you have time, make the most of it. Focus on your future, and your present. Ganbatte.

I have set myself a goal. To do something with friends once a week from now on. Already have something for this week and asked another friend to do something next week hope it works out.