Might as well be honest. Any women want to talk.

Kinda feel bad for this guy. Think we were all optimistic like this when we got on this site. Till we got embarrassed by putting ourselves out there

I'm not embarrassed but it does suck that the site is not what it's meant to be. I mainly just use it to chat but even then it's not that great. Almost every dating site has that "no commitment and I want to be friends" thing going on.

Never try, never fail.

Lol, but that tactic doesn't work. Spend some time here trying to get to know people and girls. Girls will not usually come to you. They are already dealing with the 900 other guys wanting to date/sex them.

Wouldn't say that, I get a fair few girls add me and I barely go after them but I can agree its a heavily male focused site so you kinda got to put yourself out there otherwise you're just another male out of the many

Yeah I wouldn't tell someone not to try becasue there's a chance that someone will click with them but if you don't find someone here take a break and set it on the back burner. I would like to see some more women out there to get some equality balls and start to talk and ask out more guys. I've always asked girls that I like out and make the first move but I'm sure there are some women that like me but never asked so I not being a mind reader don't know and just pass them. I would also like to think that just becasue a girl send you a friend request don't mean they like you like that but more of ah hey they seem cool I'll talk to them. < nice first step and a possibility but not a clear indicator. As a guy that has spend a good time of his life looking and doing everything even nothing to find a girl but end up with rejections and failure it's not fun. I've also never to my knowledge been asked out or approached by a girl and they every strait up say hey I like you. Now I don't expect or demand anything from women becasue I would not want them to do the same to me.