Introvert people

Well im introvert as f*ck. I was wondering, how is it like to be LESS INTROVERT. I know i will get over this later on. So guess this post is to help you introvert guys ;)... In order to have friends, you gotta learn how to tolerate and respect other tastes in anime and particular stuff, in order to maintain a good relationship. :) And if you don´t want to feel less alone or don´t have this problem like me, then give me some advice XD (Just dont tell me depressing stuff LOL)

Being introverted isn't something you 'get over'. That's like saying you'll get over being left handed. It doesn't work that way.

I'm introverted and I have friends. Heck, during both high school and college I would try to find places to be by myself. But people still came to me and I ended up having friends anyway. XD I don't even like the fact that most people in my town know who I am now because of my job. I was so well hidden beforehand that people thought I just recently moved here. Technically I was away at college, but they still didn't know me during my time in high school. Now most people in town keeps trying to talk to me when they see me walking to work and/or home. It's kinda annoying. It was nice to just be hidden in my room because of my introverted ways. >.>

I am introvert. I try to stay away from people and classmates as i realized most of them only hang out with each other because feeling lonely is worse and being classmates is close to being friends. I can´t get past that, especially since most of them probably won´t talk much after graduation. I also observe a lot and tries to understand everyone. Since i try to stay honest i sometimes comes off as a dick. However i do enjoy helping out from the shadow even if i am not noticed. I usually don´t talk much about my nationality or religion too as those of the same find their comfort zone there. Instead i want people to talk to me for my actions instead. But i do have close friends who don´t share much hobbies with me. And i like to hang out with them for no reason. And i think that is the most important thing for me.

First, you're introverted, not introvert. Second, How do you feel if you talk for a while? Interacting with large groups drains me, I literally feel mentally drained after a while of being around people. It's not that I'm shy, I really do prefer the company of just a few or none at times. There is no desire to change this, it's literally how I am. You just sound like you're saying you're shy and that's quite a bit different.

@Maya Some do and some don't. I like and prefer to be alone at times, but that's mainly at home. I still like being around a few people when I go out, though. Introverted people don't technically want to be alone, we just naturally can't be around people or be really out going for long periods of time because it's just mentally draining, as what Yass have said about himself. After being around people we just need time to ourselves in order to recharge basically. It's nothing against anyone, we just need space. Our very own open space with no one else inside it.

@hoodedfang Ah, I see, then you could have few friends, and talk randomly with others. I myself don't have lots of friends but many acquaintances. If you don't feel comfortable having loads of people then don't force yourself, simple chatting is good enough sometimes.

Well, seems i got a lot of response :D Let me try to respond all... @neet-one Im trying to be less introvert, i know i cant get over it, ( I meant get over the amount of seriousness i put into being introvert and get more comunication) Its funny cause i was born left handed, and now im right handed LOL! XD sorry mate. @yaasshat I am introvert XD, i feel exactly the same when im with a group of people, i need to talk to one at a time. Im not shy, when i find people, I talk to them if its needed to conversate or to someone who shares a hobby i like (And i talk a lot in that moment), also i talk in public for school projects and stuff, so yeah, not shy only talk to one or 3 people out of the whole school (And sometimes just to say things like, hi) soo, im introvert. Well no one helped me XD. At least i know im not the only introvert here LOL. (#Relatable)

Just get out there and get a job! Jobs help as they FORCE you to talk to people and make relationships with colleagues or customers. I remember one time being stood outside on my break at my new job after being there a week. I was stood opposite one guy I got on best with but we were struggling to make conversation anyway xD Then my manager and the main team manager came and stood with us turning it into a circle. Now I had to make conversation as it just makes you look good in your managers eyes. Generally employers wants extroverted people as they interact with the public better. So since it was in my best interests to make conversation I actually was motivated to think of stuff to say. Also while you have a job look for a better job as people are more likely to hire you if you already have a job. That way you can keep meeting new people and make new friends and maybe you'll find a girlfriend at one of these jobs ;) These things are just practice. And you'll never get good practice unless you're out of your comfort zone. And talking to random people might be more difficult, and easier to embarrass yourself than colleagues so I recommend that.