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The values women look for in men (For guys only)

kairu_steve
A while back I posted about this book I'd been reading called Dating Success for Men by Jeremi McManus (link here: http://www.maiotaku.com/mytopics/565/mytopics/30037), and one of the things it mentions in one chapter is that women tend to look for value in men. After a quick Google search I found a few links which I think are rather enlightening on what women tend to look for in a man. This first one is really good. It's written by a woman and identifies what women like and dislike when it comes to men. http://www.futurescopes.com/falling-love/811/10-qualities-women-look-man This next one actually relies on scientific evidence on what women seek in men. I think it's worth the read. http://get-a-wingman.com/what-do-women-find-attractive-in-men-8-scientifically-proven-traits/ There were a few more I had a look at that had some good advice but they tended to bring up some of the same points. Anyway, hope you guys will give these links a look and I hope they help. I'll certainly be taking the sites' advice and see if they help at all.
yaasshat
Or, just take things as they come. There is no one size fits all guide. Women (just as men) are not pre programmed machines where there's an easy how to guide, life would be pretty boring if that were the case.
yaasshat
Well, I don't have money, but I also don't get complaints.;) Well, siru, you like to drink? So do I. I think this could be a bromance... I mean, only if ya want...;P
siruboo
I like to drink pickle juice
yaasshat
Personally, I love a good sweet pickle.
saberwing
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yaasshat
I prefer charcoal. No hearts for you.
david_nyquist
These are all pretty obvious...Well, I'm sure someone that is new to dating and relationships will find them useful. Good find! I think it is important to note though, as yaasshat hinted at, is that there are no strict rules when it comes to qualities women look for in men. There's variation among the population, that is a given. But hey, this ain't a half bad guideline! Especially the bit about self-worth and social value. Like, sure, I'd dare to say a majority of women do like the David Beckham body and muscles. But a lot of them are willing to settle for less if you're solid in other aspects. Plenty of girls don't mind scrawny guys or guys on the chunkier side; but for god fucking sakes, look and act like you're worth their time! No more anime shirts and pity-parties! Get a smart haircut, minimize hair product, wear a proper cologne (no bodyspray), shave and shower everyday (unless you do want to rock that stubble look), and dress like you're going to church. Fitted collared button ups of a solid color, slacks (jeans are okay, but they have to be slim-fit and of the right shade of blue. Almost a gray blue), and casual loafers/oxfords. And a matching belt. If you want to step up your game even more...and this is a HUGE secret...roll up your sleeves (the proper way) and wear a simple, minimalistic watch. Observe soaked panties hitting the floor.
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