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yaasshat
May 26, 16 at 11:16am
I mean, I have, but we dated for 1 1/2 yrs after. I'm not one to just hit it and quit it. I always tried to see if something was viable. But, it's not like I have a wide array of experiences in this kind of thing. Who knows? If I wasn't currently in a relationship and some chick wanted to just fuck(pffft...Let's be real, I'm far to antisocial for that to happen.XD)...Maybe I would.
xueli
May 26, 16 at 12:43pm
I probably wouldn't but who knows the future. I will say that besides the health risks, I'm kinda more worried about like social and personal risks. If there was a way to guarantee safety and no one would find out then I'd be for it, but since that's very unlikely then probably not. :/
bonfiyah
May 29, 16 at 1:23am
No.
youroniichan
Nope. Even when I am dating I like to take it slow just in case we both end up not being right for each other. People these days have no patience. They want instant gratification. Hopefully my metaphor is not tainted by the topic of sex but... It says a lot about a person who is willing to wait by your side without a reward in mind especially during a downpour. Those are the type's of people I want in my life.
illuminous
Hell no, waste of time in my eyes. I want instant gratification from a girl but only a girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with. Ill go slow only if she keeps bothering me to slow it down and that she's willing to stay with me. A girl with extremely high emotional intelligence will actually be able to understand my meaning behind that. She'll understand I just want to feel cared for. By me being able to vent my desires and her being able to listen and understand she will be able to calmly tell me to "wait" if that's what she truly want.
ouma_adam
Sep 26, 16 at 10:29pm
Nope. Even if she's perfect, as much as my body would tell me yes, my mind would say no simply because i don't know anything about her, therefore i can't have any affection for her. Just my $0.02, honestly...you should cherish your emotions and feelings more and not hand them out lightly, i always end up sounding sentimental but save them for someone you know who's worth your time.
spiffy_pumpkin
I have rules about who I sleep with, trust is a biggie so hook-up culture doesn't exactly agree with that. Not to mention I have to be into the person as a whole (their intelligence and interests have to align with mine) to find them attractive enough to do that with them.
zmilli
Sep 26, 16 at 11:32pm
If i only knew the person for a few hours then probably not unless i was tipsy. A few criterias need to be met first. Generally attractiveness, the way they portray themselves, state of mind, etc. Getting to know some1 better first just makes it all so much better than the girl who is throwing herself at you...and every1 else :P
alanzd
Sep 27, 16 at 12:26am
Woah getting a little steamy in here, huh? Never full on sexual organ pleasure if you get what I mean, but I've groped, kissed, and neck sucked/licked with people I've met an hour ago. What can I say? I like my necks and inner thighs. And hair in my mouth apparently. (I'm joking about that last part. I don't like it when the hair gets into contact with my mouth.)
loli_vampire
Lol, how this goes from hell no to hell yeah back to hell no.
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