Your worst exs?

First girl I fell for, but not the first time I had dated someone. I was constantly trying to change my bad habits for her, but she wouldn't end her own bad habits, such as getting mad at me for being jealous over her flirting with her guy friends, which I know that most guys would have been jealous in my situation, being mildly abusive both physically and verbally, and just simply not sharing any of my love for her when she was the one who asked me out.

Muffin. I don't know if you're actually 16, but if you are, you not going to have a serious relationship with someone of a similar age. It'll prevent you from getting hurt in the future.

Hmm, I'd say my worst was this girl I dated a few years back. She cheated on me...but to be honest the cheating wasn't even the thing that bothered me. I honestly kinda saw it coming because she was just emotional, needy, impulsive, and she was only super into me in the first place because she thought I was this silent but wild bad boy type apparently. :U But yeah it was the fact that she seriously thought that I was completely oblivious about the whole thing even after she posted pictures of herself on a date with her ex on social media commenting about how happy she is that they're back together. Yet still she would come and hang around me trying to flirt. I didn't even bother confronting her on it, since I honestly was pretty disgusted with her and felt she wasn't even worth the drama or making a scene over, she was pretty decent looking but didn't bring much to the table personality wise. I just broke up with her and completely ghosted. I was pretty insulted that she seriously thought she could pull a fast one on me of all people. I have a pretty effective bullshit detector. :v

The ex that irked me the most was perhaps my 2nd gf from 3-4'ish years back. She wasn't necessarily the worst because she was a bad person. That was the problem, she was a GREAT person. We lived an hour apart from each-other so she wasn't extremely local, but it wasn't too bad. All of the same interests, down to earth, loved all of the same shows and books, could have random phone or Skype conversations together lasting 8+ hours completely naturally. Never really clicked that much with anyone before. She was like an absolute best friend as well as a romantic interest, and it was mutual on both sides, so we kicked something off after talking for a long while. I think the problem was she was the type of person to always have a lot of options, and I think I spoiled her too much and showed her a little too much appreciation at times. Perhaps it made me come off as a pushover to her? I'd always plan out new special places to go at least a few times a month and really put a lot of thought into things like her birthday or special occasions. The amount of effort I put in probably made me seem reliant, when I really didn't intend for it to be that way. I've definitely learned from that experience and have grown since then. After about a year, I think she got tired of it all and wanted to test the waters. Some of my friends notified me that they ran into her actively on a few dating websites. When I mentioned it to her and how I didn't feel it was right, I was somehow the bad guy out of it, which I didn't understand...it was all very out of character for her. It really felt like a completely different person than the girl I talked to a year before and the one that we could just have naturally-flowing conversations with throughout the whole day damn near typing novels to each-other. Bleh She eventually broke up with me shortly before my birthday in December on the notion of 'I just don't think I'm at the point of my life where I'm ready for a relationship.' It was conveniently the day after she happily let me spend hundreds on both of us on a trip to Ohio, she didn't have to spend a dime, not that the money really matters to me. By January she ended up getting with somebody new. When I brought it up to her in the sense of '...so you weren't ready for a relationship?' she just instantly blocked me and I haven't talked to her or seen her since. Really killed me at the time, since someone who I considered a best-friend and also considered to mean a lot to me was so easily willing to completely erase me from their life. I'm well over it now, and I've grown from it. I haven't gotten with anybody since then, but I'm confident that the next can go much better, once I run into it.