Your worst exs?

My worst was someone on here. I've had bad ones before but this by far was the worst anyone could've done. So there was someone I met on here and we got to know each other for a solid month. We both liked each other and decided to start a relationship. We had talked on the phone, played games, shared photos, etc. All was normal. Eventually we decided to meet, so we did. Everything started out normal and the day was normal as we both went to a con. I bought her things, did whatever she wanted to do, anything a gentleman would do. We did normal romantic things and I took her to dinner then said goodbye. After I told her I loved her, she said it back. It was the perfect date.. or so I thought. The next day she calls me and says "our personalities are too different" and that "she wasn't perfect for me" so we split only after a 48 second phone call. I had never been more confused in my life seeing as everything went okay before. Later that day, I wanted clarification so then she said apparently I didn't look at her which isn't true because I complimented her eyes and looked at her the whole time at dinner and when she talked to me. And she said it was "too awkward" to be friends which is silly because I went through all that trouble to be with her and buy her what she wanted. She also said I was more "different in person than online" but I was the exact same, only a little quieter because it was our first time meeting but we warmed up to each other throughout the day. Then she tries to make me look crazy because of my stress and confusion so I get blocked on just about everything and her friends ganged up on me telling me to leave her alone. Which I did but I was never harrasing her, I even said I didn't want trouble and I wanted to talk things out like a civil human being. Here's a tip of advice, meet in person first then see where it goes. You get two faced people like this who play with your heart and it's not fair.

Our stories are a little similar. I've only had two girlfriends, and neither of them were bad; but the result of my last was a really shocking one. I mean, in hindsight, I suppose I should have seen it coming, but hindsight is always 20/20. We had been going together for a month, and though I was trying my hardest to console her when she was feeling insecure, the experiences her last ex put her through placed me in his shadow. That's definitely my biggest regret: not having been able to get through to her. When you've been emotionally abused for seven years you fall into a pretty deep hole. Anyways, i was naive and she was sweet when she wasn't accusing me of loving other women. Things moved a little too fast, though, I guess. I bought her a belt with her nickname studded in it for our one month. We said we loved eachother after whoopee some days later, and that spelled the end. The next day she said she wanted to be friends... but by that point my brain was a mess. I had started to really open up to her, having trust issues myself. Eh, well. I don't know about the rest of you, but I, for one, hope my ex has figured more out for herself and doing better.

my worst ex: she was simple, cute, and beautiful. we hang out all the time till she confessed her feelings for me. i couldn't reject her because i too have the same feelings for her. at first she always run to me and hugs me every time when she saw me, like shes always excited when i'm around. everyday i made her feel like i'm courting her. bringing her flowers, chocolates, walking and picking her up from school, cooking her lunch and delivering it to her every school days. here in the Philippines terrorist always strikes hard in the country, but we never knew that our city will be invaded by a large group of terrorist. she texted me to pick her up and help her because she's in the city and cant get home and she was scared. so i rushed my way into the city wearing nothing but black shirt and dark jeans. i went everywhere just to find her and i couldn't careless about my safety. waited there till 12midnight but she called me and told me that shes safe and shes at home now. i don't know how but i didn't mind asking her as long i know that she was safe. so i went to the nearest safe zone and the military sent me to the evacuation center. the battle took for 1month and 14days. i endured anything, because i loved her so much like she was the world to me. i danced for her and singed for her in public and crowded places just to make her feel like shes the only girl for me in the whole world and i want the world to know it. but many people disapproved our relationship, it is not because of me, it is because of her and her background. they warned me about her but i never listened. as months passed by? she kinda changed and got cold on me. i tried to get her attention but she is always busy on her phone, i tried to ask her out again to watch some movie but she is always making excuses that she cant come, i tried to text her, chat her call her, but no replies just seen. she even told me not to go to her place and to pick her up because she knows her way to skill, waiting for her at the gate because i cooked her favorite but she never came and cant call her on her phone. waited for her again at the gate just to pick her up but still she was nowhere to be found and it rained so hard that day but i never left the spot and then she texted me to go home because she was already home. i told her that i was waiting for her and why didn't she popped out? but she never replied back. then after 2months she was crying and told me that she was cheating on me. my whole world crushed and my heart broke like a glass. but still i forgive her and gave her a 2nd chance because i love her. but nothing was the same, she got bossier, she want me to leave me friends and just stay with her, she hits me around and cursed me lots of time. all the scars and marks on my skin i hid from my family because i don't want them to disapprove her. then after few years we've got engaged. but she did it again, i caught her cheating again with another guy and they had been seeing each other for a 1yr. then i confronted her and i asked her why is she doing this to me? but she laughed at me and toss the ring right on my face. she told me that she was seeing other guys from the start and she had sex with lots of boys behind my back. i told her that i know because my friends and family saw you and warned me about you but i still didn't believe them because i love you. her final words was goodbye and i don't want to marry a poor and immature man like you. then i let her go, but after few weeks i heard rumors that she was spreading lies about me. which made me look like the cheater and the bad guy. but i didn't do anything, i just let her be because i know god knows the truth and karma will hit her 10x fold. so yeah? she the worst ex i've ever had. and the reason why i'm still single for 4yrs and this present day. all the effort, sacrifices, pain and suffering i endured it all just for her and for my love for her. i know i was stupid and dumb. but i cant help it? that is how much i loved her. the memories and the good times being together? i thought it was all real. i was so loyal to her and i never cheated on her and i did almost everything just for her to be happy. but this is all i get in exchange? the girl i use to love was not really her. but a mask and a fake personality just to capture my heart and my trust. i gave her my virginity, she was my 1st and my last. for what? just to crush it and toss me away like a trash. and that's pretty much it. my Worst EX. but i should thank her, because i've learned plenty things that i need to know about relationship, trust, and it is all part of life experience. it is true that lover's are blind and with that? i need to keep my guard up and be careful next time when i fall for a girl again.

well it's ok if you guys wont believe my story but all i can say is that god knows the truth. and if you want evidence about the terrorist attack? you are welcome to search it on google "MILF terrorist attack Zamboanga city". but hey? atleast i wanna thank the person who made this thread. got the chance to get it out of my chest.

First of all, My ex cheated on me. I had a long distance relationship for 1 year. She lives in the US and I live in Japan. My friend who is also my ex's friend told me about everything. I once met my ex in the US actually. My ex just excused like she doesn't want to talk to me because she is stressed out, depressed, she has serious mental issue and she even said " I still love you" but it was all lie. By the way, I met her on other website but she was also on Maiotaku. Sigh I don't understand why some people cheat. Feel worst. Just wanted to share though.

@Tatsuro i feel you bro. i too have the same question in my head. but there is nothing we can do? there are plenty of reason why people cheat. some maybe bad and useless while some maybe a good reason. don't worry. you are not alone on the cheating part. atleast past is past. ^^

my ex was abusive and possessive. When we first met he was sweeter than candy but once I started making friends he would start telling me what to wear, and if I wore anything else he would call me horrible things. He would let all of our coworkers harass me, and give me a hard time. They would take money out of cash register, they would trash my locker, and my workplace. He also wouldn't let me out anywhere if he wasn't there. He would come to my apartment uninvited and stay in my parking lot to see if I was actually home and whatnot.There was even a time where my best friend's grandmother died and I went to go see her and he started shouting at me.....and another moment where he was playing the music in his truck so loud my ears were hurting so I tried to lower the volume and he punched my hand (he always wears these bulky gold rings) and it hurt so bad I cried; and all he said was that is what you get for touching my shit. He only got worse from there to the point I grew terrified of him that I would cry and start shaking whenever someone mentioned his name. I was seeing that he was toxic and I needed to get away... I was growing tired of getting mistreated by him and his friends so I tried talking to him about it but he never changed. So many horrible things happened, to the point I wanted to end it all. I tried to get help, I talked to my boss, I talked to his parents, I tried with so many people but they all thought I was crazy since he had a good guy image. I even went to the police and they didn't believe me either due to the fact he was studying criminal justice and was applying there since he was going to be a cop! Luckily my new friends I made while I was with him saw him for who he was and helped me leave him and protected me from him. When I left him he tried hurting my friends and one of them was a girl.....I tried to calm him down but just pushed me against a wall and tried making me go back with him. He is insane and after I left him I cried so hard not because it hurt to leave but because I was free.... He is one of my worst exes and I am just so glad I left him

My ex once handed me a knife while we were having sex. She asked if I could push it against her throat while I made love to her. I never have backed out of a relationship so quickly before in my life.

Hmm, the girl I lost my virginity with cheated on me with like a couple of people, multiple times, including her abusive ex. First time I actually fell in love, it was some pretty sad shit.