Do women need to be broken before they understand?

lol, don't get me wrong, I love sex, lots of sex. But If I find someone I want to sleep with then I want to sleep with them all the time...and cuddle...and kiss...and hold hands, etc. and so trying to keep that just a fuck buddy thing wouldn't work.

I'm the same way. I can't really do the whole friends with benefits thing. I tried before, got attached. And then there was one other time that I'd honestly like to avoid talking about as well, we have skeletons in our closet ^.^ no reason to let this one out. But if I'm with someone sexually, its also romantically. I can't do one without the other. Well, I could probably do romantically without sexually. but you guys get the point e.e and poor rose xD

@Neko I said start off as that...i never said keep it that way. Think of it as more of a....trail period with all the benefits and none of the ball and chain.

vampire is so cool, thats all im listening to a sad song that goes please dont cry in the morning. memories from hs. im so crazy after drinking sory

^^^^^ Feel ya'... Kinda

you dont get guys we are different becauase we are crazy when it comes to vilence metiforicaly. we are human, i want to do crazy stuff

wat Drunken statements are the most true.. so articulate yourself. ;p For... scientific reasons.

Be broken? Are you serious or stupid? No one, well most don't seek out abuse. Who actually likes to be mistreated? Oh... I get it. Is this another nice guys finish last thing? Nah. All you need to be is a bit more assertive, not abusive. It's that simple. Show that you're willing to take calculated risks that may be rewarded with a more than worthwhile result. Women like security just as men like a certain type of security. What I see in this thread are westernized ideas of what a man and woman are. There's a lot of "men are more logical and women are more emotional" and yes, some things do stem from the natural order, so to speak. Naturally, whether you believe it or not, there is a natural order. But, I don't think either sex naturally seeks out abuse, no one likes that, well, not anyone who's mentally healthy. A failed relationship does not mean it was unhealthy just as a "successful relationship" doesn't always mean it's healthy. We all learn thru experience, failed or successful. Don't think for a second that there's a general consensus on how these kinds of things "usually" play out.