why is it so hard to find love?

Not necessarily, like I posted earlier, I'm actually dating the guy who posted this thread. Sure, it might be quiet sometimes, but its definitely not dead.

Yes, the site can be on and off dead, but be thankful a lot of you, because some of you don't realize how many other users are in your area. Most of the New England users are rarely or never on. The closest active user I can think of to me is Noire. Sorry if I forgot anyone else in the New England/Northeast region!

I think the closest online user I've seen here is Teisharo, and he's not necessarily active right now... And I haven't spoken to him at all today... I just hope he'a alright.

LOL :P I mean, the rest of the users are just inactive. But don't give upp hop, ya know?

OP? xD Sorry, I've never heard that term before. xD But ya know what's nice, I guess I can say that the site works. He've already gone on two dates and had so much fun :3 So don't lose hope just yet, ya know?

OP = original poster. (topic starter) yea i hate how clunky the site is, but it does have its benefits. i've always been a closet fan so it was hard making friends with the same interests. i just started to try out of state cons (Expo being my latest) and it's nice not being totally alone in a foreign place.