why is it so hard to find love?

OHHHOHOHO. AnimeEXPO. I went in 2006. Best time of my life. But seriously, it's definitely hard at first.

I'm the daughter of, RidingCatBus. It is true that you can find love even when you were not looking for it. I joined this site thinking "Eh, nothing is going to happen so I will just look for friends." After a while, I started talking to the man that became my husband and then he found my profile on facebook and asked me out. I went on that first date with him and then never stopped dating him since. Even after marriage dating is alot of fun. I had to finally believe that I could find someone without looking because when I stopped looking for that "special" someone, they found me. =)

Say love is like (Insert non-perverted hard to grip object) the harder you try to get a hold of it the easier it slips. Take a breath slowly reach for it, there is still a chance that it will get away. The slower you move the longer it will stay.

I can agree with you on that J :) But I think at the same time, even if you've gone all the way, so long as the two are happy, healthy and in love with each other, the relationship will carry on.