How to deal with size issues?

All the women I meat lately have low sex drives, almost seems a recent trend. With regular playing it's very rare for girth to be an issue after so much time. I did date a girl whom I couldn't have sex doggy style (my favorite position) with because I went too deep and bruised her cervix and I'm not that big.

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@Diabetesnojutsu - If you are a larger than average male and your GF is much smaller than you it can be potentially challenging. If you are wearing condoms there is a potential she could have an allergy to the material, lube, or the spermicide that's in the lube to kill sperm. If she experiences pain even with a finger she may have a more serious condition. In any case if this has been a long term problem she really should consult her doctor. It could be a sign of a more serious medical issue best caught early. If she is embarrassed (totally natural) she should know she is not alone or inadequate and taking care of ones health is important above all else.

DarkuSchneider, thx man! We are not wearing condoms, as she is on the pill and we are both tested. Just gonna lay it out there and say that her sex drive was just as low before taking them. Well, gotta go see the doc then I guess! We pretty much have sex for 20 minutes a month, which is pretty much 20% of what me and my ex had on an average day...

That's your problem. Her libido is low because she's on the pill. The pill cuts a woman's sex drive. If she really doesn't want to come off the pill (speaking from experience I am way happier off than I was on it) then your only other choice is to use lube as well as foreplay.

The problem isn't being lubed up. The problem is that she has zero interest in sex, and having to make the initiation for 3 years becomes slightly annoying. And I'm mostly rejected, which is pretty new to me.

I hate to say it but if the libido is the issue, it won't get better. Some people just don't care for it while others can be insatiable.

I think I under stand your problem a little @Diabetesnojutsu. You should not be just spending a hour on floor play. It should be the whold night. A few hours of fun for both of you and try starting off with a romantic evening before any of it. Get her in the mood. Also something very important don't get off on your own. Save it, so your really in the mood. Also if she up for it bring "toys" in the mix in the floor play to get her ready to take you. Remember the key to all of this is to be romantic.

Thx for the tips, but that's not really the issue. I'm romantic all the time, and I've always been romantic. The things I do for her are greatly appreciated, but they are not affecting her sexualy in any way. She has pretty much no needs for physical contact at all, so when she gets happy, she'd rather hug me or tell me she loves me instead of allowing herself to be swept off her feet. It's tricky