Cut-out date or reason from a relationship

Out of nowhere but when is your final day or a reason to not look for a relationship? I may still be young but in my mid-20s, however I may cut out and forget about fidning one and just focus on myself life goals after I'm done with my service in the USAF. I'm fine with how I am, not looking to seriously start right away, and always looking forward to meeting people. That, finding the right person, quote is getting vegue and washing away from my thoughts now. Being single may have its ups but also downs but I'm willing to accept that. So yeah, I have my own reason to stop searching. Any objections or thoughts about this?

When you realize you're at the bottom of a hole, stop digging. How long before you ETS? If you still have time, why wait until you're out? What aren't you doing now that has to wait until later?

I came to something of a realization that I'm probably never gonna find what I'm looking for, so I kinda stopped looking and gave up. relationships just aren't for everyone, some people are better off alone, even if everyone around them keeps telling them otherwise.

Neet one olí totally agreed with you I heard from a couple of people that my game is better when I'm not actively looking

It's not I'm continuing digging anymore. Just keep it in the back of my mind. Would rather focus on my life than let myself down just cause I'm not lovable. :P agree with Neet, yea relationships aren't for everyone, not now at least. Don't really have to prove anything, just wasting time when you have something else in mind or personal goals in life. That's just me. I don't have anything special with anybody or any of my female friends. We're all just dorks and have our own paths to take.

Going MGTOW are we? Not a terrible option. Wallace I have found the same thing too about not looking. It is for the same reason I would get hit on more when I was already dating someone. I had nothing to lose and that came off as cool and confident I guess.

I think it's more that you should simply not think/worry about it. That's what I do at least. It's not quite "I'm looking for a relationship", and it's not quite, "I will never find someone". Just neutral pretty much. I want to live for and improve myself for now.

Neetone by all accounts seems a bit judgemental, pompous and immature in his out look...Better off alone? That one? Yup...anyways.... Sometimes the best thing to do is better yourself for yourself. Be you for a bit and don't worry or stress about finding a relationship, you might be surprised by the results. Sometimes we only find what we need(Not want, there's a difference) when we aren't looking. Oftentimes, the most attractive you will be is when you have a goal of self improvement and aren't stressing about meeting someone. I wouldn't close my eyes, but you seem to have a few things figured out.

I've had that thought/those thoughts a plethora of times. I'm young, I'm not even done with school yet, and I can't even get my shit all together... what time do I really have for romance and what money? 87% I'm broke lmao.