Personality or looks????

Ok, think of it like this... being overweight is dangerous :\. While being overweight, the walls of your heart thicken and the insides get smaller, forcing your heart to work harder. Your liver becomes more fat than liver, making it harder to function. You get a resistance to insulin from lots of sugar, causing diabetes. Fat stored in strange places causes damage to organs around it :\. I think wanting to be healthy and live should come before wanting to date others. Being overweight also promotes things like arthritis and cancer.

In addition to that^... Your kids will be messed up if you decide to have any because they will have crap nutrition from ignorant/lazy parents, leading to a whole span of problems with intelligence, socializing, reasoning, and discipline. And if you're not ignorant or lazy enough to accumulate 500 pounds of pure ENERGY, I don't believe the gene pool should be muddied. It's just unhealthy and contributing to the cancer on humanity. I bring kids up because ultimately, dates are setting us up for spreading our genes.

Hard to tell, I think personality is important, but sadly is not all, I think there has to be a balance between personality and looks, since if you have to much of one there will always be problems cause of that, so I guess its something like 50/50 in my opinion

I don't believe that weight is an issue unless it is unhealthy weight (obese, etc). I don't usually go based purely on looks, they are somewhat important but not nearly as important as personality. Think of it this way, You could be the most beautiful person in the world but when someone tries to talk to you its like talking to a brick wall. Don't think people wont want to be with you just because of your weight because if you have the notion in your head then you might just think that's what everyone else thinks as well, even though its not true.

No not always, some guys do but i agree with others. In some cases its unhealthy/unsanitary but personality matters more. Its a fine line, if someone doesnt take care of themself like hygine, health or at all or their personality is way off that drives most off but dont sweat it! Itll come to you i mean your a pretty awesome person just be yourself

Ok here is my gripe as probably going to be the most shallow guy here (or at least to admit it). I don't mind over weight girls so much, but what really turns me away physically is the waddle. Walking with some one and seeing them rock side to side with each step they take is usually a good sign that there isn't to much physical activity going on there. Not to say though that all big people waddle or that all people who waddle are big. My ex never waddled and she was bigger then a girl I went out with once and the she did waddle. So yeah, use them knees please.

Solar flare thats not shallow sometimes its medical but i agree it usually means someone does not take care of themselves, i judge personality not looks too but theres a limit to everything to deny it is to deny ones humanity

You need a good balance of physical attraction and personality. Not have one side be too much but a balance of the two.

both ^^ when it comes to romance. but you know even biologically it's ingrained in most men's minds that a small waist is attractive to men because it shows the woman is healthy. thats the history of attraction. it has always been attractive also when you look good it means you take good care of yourself and that you love yourself. men will see that and naturally want to come talk to you. as for personality jsut dont spend too much time on primping! you will lose your personality if you concentrate on that too much! be yourself ^^