Cute Girls

The only difference between what most people define as "pervert" and not can be seen as, a pervert is just someone who is open about their sexuality while most people hide it (usually for fear of people thinking that they are a pervert). My own personal definition of "pervert" is someone who is selfish about their own sexual gratification where they don't care if they hurt anyone. Where someone who isn't a pervert doesn't want to hurt anyone. But since people are so repressed and feel guilty over many of their own sexual desires, they view anyone who is open about their sexuality and fetishes as a "pervert" which I disagree with.

you say people who aren't perverts don't want to hurt anyone, yet you seem to have no problem making people uncomfortable or grossed out by being open about it.

If I was trying to gross people out I could do a much better job. I'm just being honest about my viewpoints. Some people are easily uncomfortable about discussing any detailed sexuality. I can't help that, I'm not forcing anyone to read what I write.

More guys join the site with the intention of finding a relationship then girls do. The girls that do join aren't necessarily looking for much else other than friends. I see plenty of girls join that I'd define as "cute", but since the vast majority of them don't live anywhere near me, I don't see much point in trying to persue anything with them. I will say if your intention is to use this site to try and find a relationship, at least one or two real pics of yourself should be on your profile. As much as anyone wants to spin it as "loving what's on the inside", it comes across as you trying to hide something if your profile photos are dominated by nothing but anime pics.

That seems like a really a clear sign of not caring if you bother other people though. If you do things you know bother other people and just do it anyway, by your own definition wouldn't that make you a pervert?

^+++Also I know some people don't like how they look but if you really want a relationship than it's better to get rid of the people who are only into peoples looks, that way you know if someone keeps talking to you and want to know you that they are willing to get to know you despite your (perceived) flaws.

The only funny thing I'm seeing here is men twice the age of essentially kids, trying to defend themselves from their accusations... Not on topic, I know, but then again most of this tripe isn't.

Cecil, some people are just shy and/or have trust issues. Personally speaking I'm not some ugly sasquatch, I just don't want images of myself floating around the net.