When on a Date..

@Xueli, sorry I did not answer your question because wasn't on for few days and did not see this post. Yes, my 2nd ex bring her friend because she afraid i might eat her or something. I wouldn't mind she bring her friend but not like for every time I meet her. I broke up with her because she is not trying always listen to her mom and friend advice. Cannot make her own judgement. I felt like babysit her instead. She told me she was shy and nervous around me. Also she did not love me a lot. After couple of date and she still bring her friend and made me waited for 1 hour for her. I don't got the whole time since I got school and things to do. I got a call from her few days and wanted to get back with me but I refuse. I don't understand why women can be hard to deal with when not getting love in return.

She has to have a passion for something, hobby, work, etc. Without one its negative for me. If she has a passion for something I can understand her, and she can understand my passions.

I'm not looking for anything on the first date. If I go on a date with someone, I've already seen what I'm looking for and just hoping to have fun.

Yeah. "Dating" is way too much pressure. Too many expectations. It's all about having fun and discovering someone new.

I would just enjoy being together chilling an not having them be eyes deep on the phone 24/7 unless we were playing a phone games would be cool

Likes or things I would like to see... Well, common ground with me of course. Likes and interests, whether with sports, or movies or of course anime/manga, and video games. Dislikes? Someone who was not contributing much. I don't mean someone as soft spoken as Hinata Hyuga or has few words like Yuki Nagato, because the quality of what you say is more important. But if you look disinterested or distracted and your responses or statements have nothing to do with the conversation. That is a turn off. Speaking for an extended period with someone else is a big turn off. I understand if your family calls and you must let them know how you are, or what food you want when you get home or whatever. Just do not go on a 10 minute tirade laughing your butt off and forgetting you are with someone. What am I doing for those 600 seconds, twiddling my thumbs? Eating? Just manners and common decency lol not asking to bow at my feet as a dictator ya know.

Spending the day together with the attention focused on whatever it is we're doing on the date or just solely have the attention focused on each other it is a date after all. that and not being so into the phone I hardly ever use mine.

I like to see someone relatively upbeat and injecting things into the conversation. Especially if it's a first date, I can understand the nerves portion of it quite a bit, but even through nervousness people can interact and make conversation even if it's not always the easiest to express yourself. I guess if I had some things to pick about not wanting to see, being a complete wallflower, obvious disinterest in even being there, or making the entire date about themselves be it picking what to do, everything talked about is about themselves and they don't even make an effort to ask you a few questions about your life, interests, family, etc. Talking is great, don't get me wrong. Nothing is weirder than long stretches of awkward silences when trying to make conversation, but try to make it a 50/50 conversation at the least.

I would like my partner to treat me just like how he'd treat me anywhere else, nothing too fancy or anything. A date at home watching a movie and cuddle under a blanket sounds perfect to me. Or or a small walk on the beach at sunset~ Too cute.