Sex or cuddles?

... I reiterate. What kind of sex are you having? Actually what kind of guys are you meeting? I will just say that we've had very different experiences in this department

@burninghalo It's too much porn... and the fools who think that's what sex is really about. The problem is our culture has lost the art of romance in general. Sex is plastered everywhere and used to market everything. And people's ideas of sex are totally unrealistic because of it. @Fox Queen Sex drive is burnt into guys most basic of instincts. It's extremely inconvenient for us too. And yes there are guys that simply let it run wild with no desire to keep it in check. But often it's as involuntary as blinking. You're gonna have to accept that guys can want you for BOTH.

Tbh I enjoy both thoroughly, Making Love and then Cuddling next to eachother, what's better then that?

I do feel for you though. I don't envy women. Guys can be serious jerks in that respect.

I don't think I've ever had a guy who wanted to make love. Sex just doesn't seem romantic to me. Maybe I'm doing it wrong though

Not true V, Im dating someone Trans and I don't look at him as some sort of fetish craving. Just gotta find someone who treats you how you want to be treated.