What are you looking for?

I am getting tired of all the posts about "What is a dealbreaker?" "Likes and Dislikes in a Woman" "Likes and Dislikes in Guys." What are you looking for??? The reason you are seeking another human being? For me, I'm kind of lonely even though I have lots of friends and a decent job. My friends also have decent jobs, lives, SO's and such. So they can't hang out all the time. If I can't find a guy of my own who is intelligent, wants to do things like go to cons and talk about our favorite anime/manga, maybe cosplay and plan outings etc. I'd like a decent friend. I definitely want someone to talk to, and I have found a few on here, though they have busy lives as well. So, what would you like? I want to meet people that are intelligent and get excited about stuff I like, they don't have to like everything I like, but just one thing that we can connect on. If they could appreciate what I have to offer, and what I am capable of that would give me a lot of joy. The kind of person that like my friends will bring out the best in me and also help me when I'm not at my best. I'd like to meet someone that doesn't judge on looks so much but more on people's character and has a kind heart. A person I would look at and go "I'd really like to be more like this person." For me, that is extremely difficult to find, but I know there has to be someone. My best friends are like this so I know they aren't that rare. Am I the only one here that thinks this way? lol

Need someone to share stuff with. Experiences/Hobbies/Etc. I share with family and friends but I mean on a more personal level :l

I've found few in life that I'd truly call "friend". You don't have to like the shows I like or even the music, but you must share the same heart. Somehow I've always found it hard to talk about my interests, but I love delving into the personal and interpersonal nature of things. I honestly prefer deep conversations even if I don't portray that very well here. I would like to find a few whom I would be comfortable enough to call a friend, because if you're my friend, you're my family. Who knows what may change in the future, but for now that's it.

Looks are always the last thing I look for, character is key, someone who is nice and with a kind heart. I hate the stuck up conceited girls who look down on everyone. someone who just wont judge someone by appearances, cuzz I have been judged my whole life. I just want a girl who enjoys the same hobbies as I do, where I can feel comfortable.

I'm looking for a steaming hot babe with huuuge money (￣▽￣)ノ Although it seems like finding a mate because you're lonely isn't the right way to go about it. When you're lonely then you adopt a puppy. It's reasonable that you'll make a better choice in a significant other if you're not being dragged down by loneliness, insecurity, sadness ect. Not that there's emotional switches you can turn on & off to appear super happy/confident. I know lots of us live with ongoing depression or social awkwardness. But as it was noted on The Big Bang Theory: Biologically speaking, people perfectly justified in seeking out the optimum mate for the propagation of his/her genetic line. Now, whether that propagation is in the interest of humanity is, of course, an entirely different question.

Someone looking for a committed ltr. Someone who is laidback, understanding, can put up with the fact I'm a gamer, and has a job or at least goals and are working towards better things. Doesn't necessarily have to be an otaku or fellow gamer, but it definitely helps to at least be of the geeky persuasion.

I like where this thread is going. If we can just keep it up. :P @Oreo I'm with you on that, there are people that just think they are the best thing ever, I find it to be a delusion of grandeur. They usually are the most loathsome people, sadly... @robscene yeah, I'm not so lonely that I have to just find someone right this instant, but I do get what you mean. Some people think that going into a relationship will solve all their problems and they don't realize what comes with going into a relationship. It's really something some people should consider. If they just have to find themselves someone then they might just go for the first person that gives them a chance and that's not a great way to go about it. @Cecil Sounds a lot like me, I want someone who has a goal in their life and is working towards it. Without having some goal, an ambition, and the will to achieve it. It just seems like one would just be merely existing, and that is not a good thing.

What's wrong with my "deal-breaker" thread? you gotta problem with me? huh? HUH? Don't make me find you! I'm not looking for anyone. I don't look for specific characteristics or traits or whatever. I have fun. If I am talking to someone, looks are the 1st thing that matters. If you're ugly it's not going to happen. Then if you're personality is also ugly, it's damn sure not gonna happen. I don't see how anyone can say that looks doesn't matter and mean it when most of the girls and guys on here main profile pic are anime pics with zero pics of themselves on the page anywhere. Looks is hella important and the girls here are extra sensitive about their image. The girls that I mainly see who have a pic of themselves up are either in cosplay or they look good and are not looking for anyone/are extremely stuck up.

^ Yes. Use. Your. Own. Pics. Plox :D