Is weight an issue?

I had one "obese" gf (she weighed like double me x.x), and one that was around my weight, (So chubby, it would be called? She definatly want "fat" by any means.) The rest, two were skinny and the rest were average. The obese one was terrible in bed, was a bit of a whack job, and who's mother was addicted to oxytocin. Yeaaah. The chubby one was meh in bed, but had a huge heart, and if I could go back, I would. She's married now :/ The two skinny ones, one is a complete control freak, but extremely philosophical and logical. If she wasnt so controlling about things, she would be perfect, but we fought constantly. She's stubborn as fuck. great in bed until we fought non stop, then she just wasnt in to it as much. The other.. she was a sweetheart, for the most part. She changed over the years, and is now my best friend, but we ended up engaged... then she cheated on me :/. That was over 10 years ago though and I forgave her, and like I said, She's my best friend. Strange? The best sex I've had came from my most recent "ex" win I didn't know only wanted something casual. She turned out to never be the relationship toe given get past relationships, but surprise... her current one she claims, and I quote word for word, "I'm starting to become more romantic." So.. yeah. Amazing girl, personality wise, Amazing girl overall, she just left me when it turned out I wanted a relationship and she didn't. :/ she was average weight. Id take her back in a heart beat if she would ever talk to me again. :/

Yeah...I also won't date underweight girls for that reason <.< Bones can be rather painful in bed, and cuddling is excessively uncomfortable...also falls under the category of health consciousness and usually also comes with insecurities...

that's a lot of variety xD so many different personalities and yeah its pretty ironic that when shes with someone else is when shes finally committed... great that you could stay friends with one of them :D so whats your type? thin skinny fat? sounds to be either you have none or your going with average girl? also https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTVH5JRppdRaVYnARe4wthWc53ee-lBv1dU1l5lqIKx5jOIa-xN

Not too skinny because like Karasu said, bony hurts. Prefer a girl with meat on her bones but that is also athletic since I'm always doing outdoor shiet.

Is it odd to say that it is even though the two relationships that I've been in have both been ( and the second one being current) with big women? It's like this, I never went out of my way to look for a bigger woman, but I got to know and like based on personality. I went through enough crap with my ex ( we were together for 6 1/2 years) when she "wanted" to lose weight. The huge thing ( no pun intended ;) :P) to deal with was this, maturity and also not wanting to ever even consider having kids ( which it seems my current girlfriend is in the same boat on the kids thing...Maybe fate is trying to tell me something.XD). I know I don't have the multiple experiences as some, but the biggest thing over all is maturity. I'm trying ( and we're both slowly getting there) to get us both to be healthy, not just for looks, but long term health. I'm not a fan of really skinny though, I'd feel like I'd break the poor girl.XD I truly do go after a big heart more than anything else.

Weight isn't a major issue for me, I'd prefer if at most they were just chubby, since like Karasu said, it's more of a health thing. I've been with a big woman before and loved her and her body, things ended, but not badly, just we ended up becoming too busy for each other. But I don't mind if you're anorexic or overweight really, as long as you're healthy. Both have their ups and downs. And you know what they say, if you can't find a hole, use a roll ^_~

HAHAHAHAHA OMG xD I literally spit out a little bit of water just now, "if you can't find a hole, use a roll" ...I've never heard that before now, glorious beyond all measure man...glorious...