Do you ever..

Just get so annoyed with being around with your significant other? For my case, she can be rather clingy and a bit of a nuisance. It's just when she always jokes about me being with some other girlfriend or is just like "You just don't love me <w<" thing. I could be able to deal with that if it wasn't so often. Everyday it's the same joke about those two things and it's getting to the point where I'm just uncomfortable with it. If I fall asleep in the middle of texting while laying on my bed, she'll spam me with messages as if I'm ignoring her or something. I'll wake up to messages like that or until she'll get to the point where she'll say "Well, goodnight.." Again, messages like that where I feel like she thinks I'm just ignoring her. Another thing is when I'm telling her I'm going to lay down to get some sleep, she'll want me to skype until we eventually fall asleep on it. I use headphones while on skype and I find it uncomfortable to sleep with them on so she gets upset that I'll sometimes decline to do so. It's ridiculous.

Clingy true fact is the reason relationships crash and burn. She will need to understand that you have a life of your own and she should also it's called hobbies. My relationship was almost like yours, If i didn't call or text for a day or two she would think i'm ignoring her when really i,m going by my daily routine jobs, anime, manga, video games, friends that she didn't have much off. Maybe their are issues in her past that made your significant other this way who knows. Adults will always need there space.

Some people just need to understand that a relationship is not a religion. You don't enter this "partnership" to have one of you swooned over at every waking moment. You've decided to share your lives together, not one of you give up your own life to observe the other's.

No one here seemed to really give you any real advice so let me try offer a suggestion. It seems she clearly has some insecurities about your relationship and probably herself as well why she is constantly bringing up the possibility of you being with one another. The healthiest thing to do would to be to try discussing this with her and explain to her that you care about her and want to be with her (unless you don't in which case it'd be best just to end the relationship all together). I think being able to properly communicate is key in a relationship and perhaps she doesn't know these things bother you, so that being said it seems like you need to discuss your discomfort with some of these things and try to make her understand where you're coming from and vise versa where you can hear her side of why she says/does these things as well. Anyways, I wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out.

Nope, started as an international business major. Realized business was a pretty dumb major after a bad internship where I realized by doing business I'd be pretty much forced into being someone I'm not. Upon trying to make a major switch I attempted to go into civil engineering to pursue a career in water resources and basically helping developing countries gain access to clean water sources, however after 2 semesters of trying to make this switch I was told by head of civ. engineering my first two years were wasted and I'd still be looking at 4 years (and I really don't have that time and money). Anyways, after all this stuff going on I finally made the official switch into environmental studies with a concentration on environmental restoration; there are some civil engineering courses as well to go along with my concentration. I think I'd make a pretty bad therapist, I am as accepting I can be of others and will help anyone I can because I just want others to know that there are always people that care and there are always ways to get help in dealing with problems that are too big to handle on one's own.

Well, sir, You are a good person. There are others who care about people and try and help them but you go above and beyond. Hats off sir.

I've seen a bit of your posts and I think you're definitely one of the better and more accepting people on this site. AKA: I think you're really cool too!