Have you tried other dating sites?

JapanCupid = Most Japanese women here either not notice me, just view my profile, send me interest alone, fail to become friends with me, or successfully friend me while ending it a short time later. I made plenty of important friends here as good as MaiOtaku. OKCupid = Message system and other features seem to not work properly. DateInAsia = Too many Filipinos. And once you delete your account here, there's no turning back. TrueLoveJapan = More restrictions here than JapanCupid. Most others I can think of were nothing but crickets singing, so maybe not worth mentioning. Some were also way too restrictive.