dave_the_hermit

Yes, I am in the us. "Nice save by claiming your vocabulary to be so limited while also typing out paragraphs in quite literate English." I genuinely did not know, being 100% honest. I try to do my best, but there are several words I do forget, so I am lacking a flexible vocabulary, but maybe that's just me trying to do better. I never had anyone point out if my grammar or english was good or not, I am horrible at giving context, or conveying what I'm thinking. "Where is said guy trying to meet women?" Definitely not bars, that's an obvious trap. As far as I know, either online, or random places, especially at his kids' schools, or other places they randomly go. He takes his kids to places associated with school activities, and to amusement parks when he can, he gets out enough, but he's always busy. Being a journeyman plumber means he doesn't work a typical 9 to 5 job. Part of it I think, is the fact he's on the smarter side. He's a kind and fun guy, but he will get an idea of what type of person you are quickly. And no, I don't mean he's judgemental, I mean, he REALLY is good at reading people. Every person I've met that he's had an idea about, he was right about them. If they were a crook, he was right, if they were lying, he was right. So maybe women are put off by that? "You've gotta advertise to the right crowd, too." I don't think that's an issue for him, but he keeps on attracting crazies, druggies, women that want what he has, but don't put in the effort he does, or especially promiscuous women. Might be because of our location, a city that grew too big, too quickly, so there's a lot of idiots, druggies, and old people. It's probably the worst place here to find people, since there's nothing really to do here either, you'd have to go to the actual city, which is easily an hour or more drive. The only time he clicked with someone, she was either already married, or was done with relationships, and he understood that. Is it really that difficult? So far a couple of you guys kept complaining about me, which I understand, I gotta do better at conveying my thoughts, but I still have several questions I want help with, trying to connect to people online isn't easy for me, so please throw me a bone to the head.

Again, my vocabulary is limited due to having to pick up stuff on my own, I never had someone teach me english, so I understand that I'm not good on giving context. However, just as there are sexist guys out there (which I agree are pieces of garbage) sexist women exist as well. But alright, ignore that comment I made, that was my mistake. Back on topic. If a guy that has a stable job and a home, like the guy I mentioned before, is he expected to talk to women, or should it be more acceptable for women to talk to him? So far, he's talked to several, but none of them were able to put the effort he puts in. I'm trying to understand things better, I want him to be more happy than I am trying to for myself, just because he's that great of a guy, and helped me out a lot. Should he wait patiently for someone to talk to him, or should he try talking to women again? Though, it is hard enough as it is for him, working full time. Is that something people can't even do anymore, dating while working full time?