allisonn

If you have to pretend to be someone else, you are not feeling good in your own skin. Try only to change the things you are not proud of. Find a goal, what you really want to be, how you really want to treat people, if you feel good while putting the mask or not , or if it sometimes you are really using it. Those things take time, you must be really young for sure, still trying to find yourself its normal. Find the path that will make you happy, give your best , always.

Even thought personality is very important , looks also matter. I wouldnt see myself with a guy whose personality i hate , as much as i wouldnt like to be with a guy that would attract me. No need to look for a prince charming or something but there needs to be some kind of physical attraction. In my case, dating someone whose values you dont respect, thats the only thing that its not worth it. Now if the guy is black, white, christian or whatever , i dont care.