I generally look at evolutionary psychology, patterns in western social behaviors, dating ethics, experiences from myself and my friends, and all that kinda stuff. It's not all encompassing, but it works better than the "If you wear this shirt, your hair like this, and project confidence, you will get ALL the guys/girls!"

I am having a hard time understanding the meaning of the topic and some context would be really helpful. The only thing I can think of when you say unequal in paradise would be something like the world of Psycho-Pass in which a persons individuality and freedom is lost and society dictates who you are and what job you can do but on the flip-side the society is relatively peaceful. If it is something like that then hell no I do not want it at all. I can't comment on unequal and in pain though because I can't think of a possible example to draw from.

No idea... I rarely like them. 18if isn't a good anime but I liked it's interesting, artistic opening, so could be? Also liked Toradora's op, it stood out with a really cute way. And as from more like cool type... Don't know. Usually skip intros, not very into them, rarely like, steal time and often even spoil.

Let's see... Warframe The newest DOOM Men of War Assault Squad 2 The Thief series Hatred Outlast LA Noire The S.T.A.L.K.E.R games to name a few

Thrust into an all-new adventure, a down-on-his-luck Capt. Jack Sparrow feels the winds of ill-fortune blowing even more strongly when deadly ghost sailors led by his old nemesis, the evil Capt. Salazar, escape from the Devil’s Triangle. Jack’s only hope of survival lies in seeking out the legendary Trident of Poseidon, but to find it, he must forge an uneasy alliance with a brilliant and beautiful astronomer and a headstrong young man in the British navy.

In that case, I'm almost entirely motivated by my own principles. I have regrets, but they're very few and far between. I try not to make mistakes, and when I do I try to make sure they are honest mistakes. If others come to rely on me for something that I cannot do, I will tell them, and when they do it anyways, I will not feel guilty. I recognize my own and everyone else's human limitations, and I don't particularly care if someone else doesn't understand those limitations. When I do make a critical mistake it'll eat at me a little. I don't let it ruin my life, but I try to make sure that I've learned from my mistake.