I'm currently bored, and thinking about creating a small group to just hang out and have a good time. Im thinking the group could have occasional calls or little events and challenges.

Happiness. I'd choose this over stability. Because even tho life is hard for me, at the end of the day, knowing that I did that one thing that I want most in the world is enough to put a smile of content on my face. My life is simple, not extravagant nor rich, but I love it still. Living a simple life, being content with what I have. Giving love and laughing with those close to me, that's what I live for. You get what I mean?

i'm going into graphic design a job that i could do basically anywhere so living in Japan would be fun i would want to live there for about a year, long enough that in my spare time i can visit all of the cultural things that i've read about in books and seen in anime/manga

Yeah, I know, you must be thinking, wow, really, the sun? Like, the freaking sun? And the answer is as simple as day, "Yes". You want to know why I like long walks on the sun, because no other organism can survive on the surface of the sun let alone be able to intrude upon the proximity of. Meaning, not only do I not have to talk to people, but anyone who gets near me, whether it be financial problems, or maybe I'm being stalked by telemarketers, at the end of the day, they can't reach me, because I'm on the freaking sun.