lol, when I was 14, all I cared about were finding odd Summer jobs to afford the video games I wanted because I still too young to get a "real" job. You're what, 8th or 9th grade around 14. Just enjoy school and don't sweat a relationship. Too many other things to enjoy at that age than to worry about something so minor. Believe me, you'll have plenty of time to worry about a relationship later in high school and when you get into college.

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My name is arya , i am from indonesia i am new in this website :3 Nice to meet you ^^

As for the first question about being swarmed and hit on by girls, it depends on the situation. I've been hit on by a swarm of young teenage girls when I was in my twenties and I thought it was just cute. But when I get hit on by a swarm of developed women I shut down. My brain short circuits and I don't know what to do. I can go from confident and assertive to "Eh? Ehhhhhh? I uh...Ehhhh?" http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mB9C-Hwom1w/UlRPty8ed-I/AAAAAAAAVmA/JpCMKcVmwRo/s640/anime-free-Favim.com-971933.gif As for your second question. Yes, it is especially difficult for women with a child to find a new mate. The reason? It goes all the way to animal instincts. Men want to pass down their genetic material, and entering a relationship with a woman already with child, he is agreeing to be the caregiver of another male's offspring. As for the woman it is slightly different. The male has already demonstrated that he is virile enough to produce offspring. Not only that he demonstrates his ability to care for said offspring.

Find a replacement partner that doesn't mind being used. If you want to do it the harder way you can distract yourself with hobbies, work, and self-improvement. I think a combination of both is quickest and least painful.

https://soundcloud.com/munifisense/i-love-my-bitch lol I don't know this anime but this is my otaku dude friends' theme song. Them and their waifus.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIdLRftdrH8 Wow. Hearing this brings back so many memories of going to the arcade/roller rink. XD