Hmm, like dating and making friends? I think you should make comments on threads that show your interests and your personality. I'm sure you'll find some people. And if you see someone you want to be friends with, go ahead and send them a request and a nice message on their page. Some people like to talk about themselves, so asking a question or mentioning something they like is a good start. On MO, we're generally not too strict about who we'll add. I think having a few good friends is enough. If you start just collecting "friends," like some people do into the hundreds, you'll probably hardly talk to a lot of them...and they wouldn't appreciate that. Hope this helps!

Alright thanks everyone :D I was going to buy it new anyways. I was asking because I've never ordered manga online before.

Step one, stop worrying about getting laid so much. I think guys get so caught up with the intimate side of relationships and wanting almost immediate results so they can get to it, it tends to turn off women in general because they rush too fast. Step two, take a genuine interest in their lives. Ask them about their day, family, friends, interests, etc. Try to make an effort to spend time with them. If they are genuinely interested back, they will do the same for you. Step three, stop worrying so much about past failures. Believe me, I know what its like to be on a losing streak with women. If you use them for anything, analyze what you might have done wrong in the past that would have potentially turned off the girl to you, and try to avoid repeating the same mistakes again.

We are emotional beings who are at the centre of our own little universe, so I think it's almost impossible not to rant about anything. C'est la vie xD

Let's breath some live back into this thread. @Lez How are you doing now? Have you recently send a love letter again or have you recently found somebody you would possibly send a loveletter to? ^^