I think Maria laid down a good few points to base this decision on. Even if you can speak the language, are sure the person isn't out to hurt you and is who they say they are, have the ability to accommodate yourself when living there independent of this other person, have known this person for long enough and more importantly trust them enough to go through with it...even with all that one still has to consider the sheer change that comes with uprooting yourself. It's enough just to travel within your own country but with all the customs and changes in culture it's a lot to take in. And it would not be just for a one time one day visit. Traveling cross country is expensive. Let me put it this way, even considering all of the above, I would have to really have gotten to know and really liked the person to do all that~

I swear you're obsessed with that. But no I guess. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DUPH5sfzVY

I don't know a lot of Japanese (yet) but, good evening! So, I am obviously new to this place and thought I'd say hello.

^I actually started using discord 3 weeks ago! Its pretty nice so far. That and telegram

Oi mate ! You can message me and I'm(almost) always up to messaging back ! You'll find out in what mood I am, don't let that scare ya though !

I despise the "woe is me, I'm so nice, why aren't girls flocking to me" attitude some guys have. Sadly for them, nice guys really aren't that special. You're not going to get a girl by simply being boringly polite and uninteresting. I mean, I'm as fucking nice as a bunny rabbit laying on a fluffy pillow, but that doesn't entitle me to getting a girlfriend/getting laid. You have to have other things going for you. Interests, desires, goals, etc. Also, I think it's much better to speak your mind rather than just being super agreeable about everything. I've seen so many guys just tell girls what they wanna hear, like a complete and utter tool. Not having a backbone and being needy are also major turnoffs I think. My thoughts on the issue anyway.