How to get the inner confedence to feel worth it all?

Okie so like I defiantly don't have as much confidence as I use to. This always happens when I begin to like or love someone. Any other time I would be ok with myself, and happy about my appearance. Ever since I liked someone for about almost my whole last year of high school I have lost my confidence. Every time I like someone I always feel like I will never be good enough not only mentally, but for some reason I think my appearance is what matters the most. Its stupid I know, specially since I am not one to be shallow at all. I guess that's why I never feel conferrable in relationships. I always just stress myself out, and ugh...I just want to be happy like I was. I miss my happiness. I just want to be able to be confident and just feel like I'm worth it all for once..:/

Aww s'okay. That's actually pretty normal when you start to develope feelings for someone, you start worrying about your appearance and how you act around them. But if they like/dislike you solely based on looks then you honestly shouldn't be messing with them. I got low confidence too but sometimes you just gotta say fuck it. Keep at it and don't give up!! Ganbatte-ne!!/^▽^\

^This guy is correct. EVERYONE is insecure to an extent. Doesn't matter if they are the best looking people in the world or not, it's natural. When you develop feelings for someone, it happens more frequently because just as you said, you start to question if you're good enough for them or good looking enough. Fact is, Looks matter and it does to an extent, AFTER THAT, it's all personality and that is what determines if you're a keeper or not. So just be yourself when it comes. Personally, the way I generate any kind of confidence is to joke around about how handsome and insanely secksi I am lol. I'm sub-par at best but joking around about it keeps me happy enough about myself and it's uplifting since a lot of people are attracted to Confidence.

^Oh I did forget to say that looks does matter to personal extent because no matter how much someone says it subconsciously we're all wired to find attractive humans cause we're all hardwired for sex. Sigh humans so complicated. That's a good way to make confidence though. I use the whole Asian superiority complex for my faux confidence sometimes ¬_¬

Yeah that is true! ^_^ I guess we all just freak out and make big deals about ourselves! Good point! Least I know now its a normal thing to feel that way! Thanks!

Well thank you! ^_^