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sangofrank @sangofrank started lets try this with a title this time.

Aug 12, 13 at 4:37pm

im not good at these things at all. i turned 23 in june. i've ben in and out of relationships with all kinds of girls since high school. but for some reason i cannot seem to meet very many otaku girls or even guys (to be friends with) for that matter. i've ben to 5 cons now and i've finally met some people who enjoy otaku. but where i work and live its basically impossible as far as i can tell. all the girls i have dated so far have ben non - otaku. so its really hard to share my passions with them with anime and such. so people of maiotaku. what is some good advice or your thoughts about trying to find people who actually do and like the same things you do?

OrAnGe SiCkLeSp0p @nightmaresweets commented on lets try this with a title this time.

OrAnGe SiCkLeSp0p @nightmaresweets

Aug 12, 13 at 4:49pm

thanks for making this topic i dont want a boyfriend who fucking hate anime or where i have to force his fucking ass to like it but it sooo fucking hard find them there such cowards!!!!!!!!!(no offense you embrace it like i do ;) ) i live in a tiny town too and im tried of being somebody im not i wish people would just wear T-SHIRTS OR OUTFITS OR WRISTBANDS ATLEAsT!!!! You know what i mean!!! It soo hard to find them i want an answer too!:)

DarthRane @darthrane commented on lets try this with a title this time.

DarthRane @darthrane

Aug 12, 13 at 4:54pm

Lol all anime fans are required to wear identifying tags on their ears :D

sangofrank @sangofrank commented on lets try this with a title this time.

sangofrank @sangofrank

Aug 12, 13 at 6:44pm

haha both funny and good points. i think tags on our ears might be a bit much lol. i think alot of it stems that we as a community feel bullied or shamed so we don't show as much nerdiness in public maybe. or fear of wearing an anime shirt, afraid to get asked what the hell is that by random people.

Rain @rainx commented on lets try this with a title this time.

Rain @rainx

Aug 12, 13 at 8:11pm

cons are a good start, but it can be a bit intimidating to talk to strangers and new groups of people. I'd suggest local anime clubs, book clubs, gaming groups, etc. It doesn't necessarily have to be otaku, but a broader geek-set to find people with similar interests from my experience because most of it goes hand in hand. Maybe just down at the local comic/book store browsing the manga section, but again, it can be a bit intimidating admittedly to talk to someone out of the blue.

Toltecatl (Mike) @toltecatl commented on lets try this with a title this time.

Toltecatl (Mike) @toltecatl

Aug 12, 13 at 8:31pm

A while ago a friend of mine sent me some links that you might find helpful. https://www.geekgirlsguide.com/blog/2008/12/16/60/geek_love http://geeksdreamgirl.com/2010/07/24/the-geeks-guide-to-meeting-pretty-girls-and-guys/ http://www.geekculture.com/ultimatebb/Forum6/HTML/000286.html

The_Geeky_Panda @the_geeky_panda commented on lets try this with a title this time.

The_Geeky_Panda @the_geeky_panda

Aug 12, 13 at 8:44pm

Cons are a start, clubs in local College you attend, Comic Book/Hobby Store. It all starts somewhere, its on us to see it through.

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