Do you have to be attractive to find love theses days?

I'm pretty sure there are plenty of people who accept you for who you are. But just like them, we are humans are we are all judgmental and we probably look right past them also. Especially you. Your first impression is that they judge you and so you judge them. You have probably judged people to be the type of people you dislike though they could have accepted you. And that is my point, that little group. Even if i went to it i would be shunned, which is my point that YOU aren't the only one whose dealing with your whole problem. This is why I told you to stop looking for people who will ACCEPT you and just work on yourself. People who want to accept you will come to you, looks matter, yeah but as i stated, the personality completes the person. Whether it be for the better or worse. And keep telling you this, but you seem to ignore it. You aren't the only person suffering from your issue. You think you have it bad, girls won't even talk to me because they think I look like the typical Douchebag or some type of player. But when i was overweight, i was just some fat kid. How did i get over it? I stopped caring about other people and more about myself. Which is what you need to do, and which is what I've been telling you to do this entire time lol. But you keep on bringing up all this other shit and even though you're telling me you're not looking for specifics, your posts clearly tell me that you are. Maybe you're doing it unintentionally but just chill.

Hey, I got no anger or anything towards this so it's cool. I was just sharing my experiences, not complaining, but may have been some venting here and there. Look, I probably crossed some lines and some things misunderstood so if that happened I apologize. I understand though alot of people suffer from some sort of discrimination, and I was sharing about mine, maybe a little too hard then. Just how I am I guess. Living environments shape a person's point of view. I did mean that as in looking for someone who will accept me for me, but not like actively looking but more like if it comes my way. Otherwise I got my me time to improve everyday until it happens. That's what I meant so that was kinda misinterpreted. But anyway, I'm not the type to give up on myself for anything. I'm too stubborn to do that, heh. If I did though I'd still be in that obese (once again, fuck the BMI chart) guy with no job or drive, doing nothing with no dreams, like a NEET or something like that. But again, it'd be nice to share some ideals with a girl with likeminded views is all I'm saying, and not have to worry about looks. But it happens. It's life. Get over it with who you are on the inside, but keep the outside looking nice too, regardless of other people's opinions. Everything cool?

Lol. Everything's been cool. I was just giving you insight on some things that you couldn't see. You're not the only one, looks or not. We all suffer from the same thing. And as much as looks matter, I think people also tend to forget that looks matter on an individual basis. Who i think may look attractive to me, does not look attractive to another. Just relax and you'll be fine B)

*sigh* I hate racial fetishes. Going out with someone just because of stereotypes perpetuated by media is so demeaning.

Being yourself and patience will bring you true love, those are two qualities that will never fail you. Looks will have nothing to do with who loves you for you.

Gah, I gotta confess I always find these discussions pointless but anyways i'll give my 2 cents... Attractiveness is subjective, I at least find most women attractive, skinny girls and chubbies are hot(not obese, fcuk health issues), short girls and tall girls are hot, flat chested and big chested are hot, black, white, asian, hispanic, etc are all hot... well you guys get my point. The real dealbreaker is the personality, i'm usually very perceptive about this and I easily notice when a girl has an unattractive personality, and i'm correct 90% of the times. As for me, most girls say that my face is attractive, but my body sucks, I'm a bit on the short side, I have t-rex arms, my hands and feet are small like a middle school girl, my head is big so I look like Jimmy Neutron, one of my legs is shorter than the other so my walking is a bit weird (some people say that I walk like a penguin), i'm chubby and hairy as a monkey(well that's a turn on for some girls), but even with all of this I think i'm hot stuff... forget that, I AM HOT STUFF :v But anyways... i've been having some health issues lately so i've been working on getting fit, eating correctly and stuff like that. My dad has diabetes and his dad died of that so i'm 100% sure i'll get it if I don't take care of myself. I've lost some kilos in the last few months but I guess i'll get serious now. Oh and clothes, I recently began to dress "good" to raise a bit of my confidence and works like a charm. And @Liru you're attractive I don't know why you have those issues :v

heh oh it because of my vagina :/ dude i have hpv..soooo health issues automatically xD and nobody want a needle xD XD that and my pussy feel dirty and not normal so sometimes i need to keep telling my pussy its normal and fine just the way it is xD i have self esteem issues down there now thanks to the cervical cancer cells i can get anytime and the fact i have it xD i got a nice face sure but my problems lays with my insides pretty much :/ and if i gain weight i dont want another guy to leave me just case i lay weight thats why i ask if looks that important that went ur get older it would still matter but i guess that depends i guess besides i have scars alot of second degree burns around my legs and on my ass cheek soo if a guy ever fuck me dogggie ever again they usually see the burnt scars xD sooo trying to fine some guy comfortable and have a less high standard view on looks

I actually think burn scars are cool (yeah Hanako is my waifu from Kawawa Shoujo) HPV? maaan that's serious business, it sounds like it would feel good in actual sex but no one wants to get infected with that ;_;

exactly...but i didnt have that choice dude i had it the first time i ever had sex which to me didnt count dude -.-' sooo yeah...yeah im pretty much looking for acceptance from people too u know for making love and having kids...and well...im risky for god sake i could easily fuck up a guys life with this and since it kills people the type of have im actuallly seen by some people as a big ass risk soo for me to find somebody to accept that cause well there no cure for it soo i need somebody to accept the fact he need a needle in his ass or arms just soo we could ummm......"BUMP N GRIND";) but well to find a FWB who won't ask why he needs a shot to fuck me that and the fact some guys dont like condoms so if i do find a guy i need to glue that damn rubber to his stubborn ass dick xD u guys can be stubborn xD "I CANT FEEL IT I CANT FEEL UR PUSSY PLEASE OH PLEASE LET ME TAKE IT OFF IT HURTING MY PEE PEE!!!" XD yeah i heard many stories from my girlfriends i know alot of lines guys used hahaha you slick lil boys

Well yeah we don't feel shit with condoms but a bj always fixes that and there's other ways to get knocked up ;D