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i am not joking i am looking for love

lunanamikaze
looking for someone who can handle me but do so in a loving way so to make it short someone to put there Minato to my Kushina. the last boyfriend i had as hurt me both physicaly and mentialy. so i am hopeing someone here can make it go away for good.
lunanamikaze
i would just to say it not a band-aid that i am looking for it is real love
blind_bandit
If you don't mind me saying this but you look pretty so it shouldn't be to hard to find. With that out of the way I can tell you this, if you do find someone here or anywhere for that matter, I hope you don't let what happened in the past effect your present/future relationship. My ex did that and we ended up breaking up because she let her pass get the best of her. Your "so" can help you as long as you're willing to help yourself. Anyways if you need advice or just want to talk, hit me up I've been around.
blind_bandit
Wait not like that...you know in the sense of heartbreaks and stuff. Oh god you know what I mean...I hope.
acertainboredanon
“Happiness in this world, when it comes, comes incidentally. Make it the object of pursuit, and it leads us a wild-goose chase, and is never attained. Follow some other object, and very possibly we may find that we have caught happiness without dreaming of it.” ― Nathaniel Hawthorne Chasing love for love's sake will rarely see you get it, I find. Get to know a person, have conversations with them, learn about their views, hobbies, and interests, and maybe go on a few dates with them, and you might just have a chance to get on the road that leads to love. Lust and infatuation come and leave quickly, love has to be built up carefully over time and the slightest misstep could see it vanish in a heartbeat, but if you successfully do it it may last a lifetime. That's why I'm very hesitant to use the word love these days-I used it lightly in the past and have sworn never to do it again after that fell through quite badly, but it was a good learning experience.
tornadomushroom
It's safe to say that you miss what you had. The "Good" parts of it anyway. Not to sound like a douche or make you feel bad but usually, this ends up turning bad if you look for someone so soon after your breakup. Or something to "Mend" you. This is known as the "Rebound BF". Not only will you waste a guy's time but you will end up hurting him, turning him into you. Then he'll probably end up doing that to another girl and the chain goes on. Just don't do it and wait until you're ready. Focus on yourself.
lunanamikaze
no i don't miss him he was a dick. if no one can say anything nice stop posting on this it is starts to piss me off cause i really mean it i am looking for a real man not some little boy who beats me just so he feels better about himself
tornadomushroom
O_o i said the "good" parts of the relationship. If there were any good parts at all. But considering you dated him, there was most likely a time when there was. My point. The best kind of advice is the blunt kind. Covering it up with "Nice" posts aren't going to help because the truth is, there is no nice way of telling it. In anycase, if you're going to get pissed off because people are willing to give you advice from their past experiences then you probably shouldn't be posting either. None the less, Best of luck to ya!
lunanamikaze
i know not everything can but sugar covered and no was not a good times it was insulting me 24/7 about every little thing i did.
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