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has anyone had a friend with benefits

hendrix
so I'm just putting this because I just want to know if anybody has had friends with benefits. And if u have share your stories of your friends with benefits and what you guys did
the_geeky_panda
Let me just say this, Outta experience, friends with benefits is only a temporary thing. Because eventually you may/may not develop feelings for your friends, or he/she might develop feelings for you. This may cause an issue if you are just wanting to stay single. For me, the girl wanted to date me but I wanted to stay single. So I had to call the whole thing off before it got really weird.
aoiyosei
No, I think if I did it would complicate things as I'm an emotional person. It depends on the person. My best friend has and that has worked great for her. But me, errr probably not a good idea!
the_geeky_panda
yeh @aoiyosei is right, it can complicate things too much.
hendrix
Well it depends how u look at it I mean I had one beafore and I loved how wee kissed and stuff and their was no strings attached it was funn lol
misaeko
I had one before and won't do it again because I started to like him and he was still hanging on to his ex, they got bak together and i was forced to move on...
yuusaku_godai
I agree with ya. It's not necessarily a bad thing but not as common as you may think. It's mostly temporary until someone gets attached to someone else; definitely can complicate things. My advice is not be pushy and let the female make the rules. In my opinion it's easier to have a FWB with someone of the same sex. Ya don't wanna have any accidents. LOL. Don't let your emotions get the best of ya.
jorian
With my own and my friends experiences....someone always develops feelings for the other. I've just seen it hurt someone. In the end, it gets uncomfortable. But it might not happen with everyone. Just with the stuff I've seen/experienced. @aoiyosei - agreed @Misaeko - sorry to hear that :/ @Yuusaku - don't they always? :P
ohmygod
I had one. It was pretty okay for the most part, until I got bored of their routine. They weren't receptive to new ideas also, so that was a big deal breaker.
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