All i want is a gf thats into cosplay, anime, and video games.

It seems like its so hard to find a chick that's into some of the things I'm into. I'm tired of dating girls that question or even make fun of my hobbies. Why are these ladies hard to find? It also seems like if I say hey to a girl at a con, she automatically thinks I'm trying to bang her. I swear this is so frustrating. Where can I find a cool chick?

I know plenty of girls that are into all three of those. The problem is that many of them just do not talk about those hobbies outside of cons and such because they are afraid of being judged. I used to be that way, but now I talk about anime and manga and stuff to normal people, too. People don't make any rude comments to me or any of that about my hobbies. I have found many people that are into it by just bringing it up if the chance arises (and they are normally shocked to find out that I like it). I have also gotten many people into it that way. Anyways, I feel like it is a larger problem for guys to find a girl that is accepting then for girls to find a guy that is accepting of those hobbies. Then again, that is if the girl doesn't want to share those interests with the guy... Anyways, if you are looking to find a girl that likes those same things somewhere by you not using the internet, you will just have to bring it up when the occasion arises and then see how they react to it. If someone else brings up the topic and expresses interest, normally those kinds of girls jump right into that conversation. They might take a while to find, though. I wish you luck.

Good advice Alexis! There are definitely fewer girls out there with these interests, but go to a convention! You will find plenty of people you can meet there, you just need to get to know them from that point.

Yeah I know what you mean. It's pretty hard to find girls that are into all those things. The only place I would tell you to go to would be at Conventions as well. Since a lot of people will have the same hobbies as you. Personally I could only find one girl who I would date who was into anime, cosplay, and video games and she was my childhood friend who lived in Japan(Next door neighbors to my grandparents house in Japan). I could only visit during summer but she suddenly moved away and didn't see her again after that. Anyways the only place you can find girls that are into your hobbies would be there! I'm going to try as well soon. Hopefully you can find someone.

That's been my issue for years. What to do about it? Keep searching. Using the internet and going out to conventions your bound to meet someone. The important thing is to never give up and stay positive. You got this man!!!