girls who like jerks

@Megumi, and are you interested in those guy friends? have you told them if you are? Most guy's who end up with girls who use them simply don't get any interest shown by other girls. I believe that in general terms, girls fall for jerks. same can be said for guys. Jerks are usually charismatic people... I'm not saying all charismatic people are bad, but you should certainly be more careful with befriending or dating charismatic people...

lol honestly I've probably been interested in many of my close guy friends, not once have i ever friend zoned a guy either. EVER i don't believe in that kind of stuff. when i showed interest they were not interested in me so we just stayed friends. and everytime i was interested i told them flat out lol im pretty blunt that way XD. i don't often see or hear of any girlfriends having jerks for guys bc the only girls i keep around me are pretty freaking alpha so they dont put up with that shit

I don't handle dumb woman too well who can't understand reality from dreams world :P i know sounds harsh but if she goes for a jerk then she derserves him, specially if he stays with her. but if he tricks her by being nice until she falls for him i see that as a different situation

All of this is supposed to be broken up, if it shows up as a wall of text im sorry but this is still worth a read. Ok so, why do girls choose jerks? they dont choose them because they are jerks they choose them for a reason that is just strongly associated with being a jerk. None of you are gonna wanna hear this. its because there's a lot of Alpha male characteristics in jerks. And yes you've all probably heard this before but its true. Basic Evolutionary psychology and social/regular Darwinism. Jerks do what they want, when they want, dont give a damn about anyone but all this still shows a few things. You take charge, you have confidence, you get things done and have agency and competence, you are independent and strong enough to be so. Now take the above sentence and read it without the context of everything else i wrote. Sound sexy ? Even to you guys? I bet it does. Girls don't like Jerks. They like competent men. Girls just date jerks and end up finding out these guys are assholes much latter. You can be a guy who is nice and respectful but if thats all you are, of course shes not gonna go for you. You have to be the whole package nice and respectful, compassionate and understanding, strong and independant, and most of all Dont be afraid to make a move. GOING FOR IT SHOWS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART: CONFIDENCE. just make sure to make a move before she subconsciously makes the decision you aren't boyfriend material. Its possible but hard to break that perception.

One more thing, This isnt an anime or tv show. This is real life. Just because you are the protagonist of your own story does not mean a girl will like you. You will not be liked for Simply existing. THIS DOES NOT MEAN DONT BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU NEED TO LIE AND BE SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT. You just need to show what you are. Again this isnt an anime. Skirting around the topic, being overly nice supportive will get you nowhere. She wont notice you just for that unless you're drop dead gorgeous bishie McSparkle. You have to make it clear who you are, what you are, and what you want (which is obviously her/or his(yes this works for girls too) affections. A girl will not fall for a guy's charm if a guy is only nice and supportive because a guy who is only nice and supportive has no real charm.

roukuro lets be friends :D only i would like to add that being nice and supportive is charming, but by itself that charm is more of an older brother charm. i had a hard time up til now finding a guy with all of those qualities you mentioned however i did find one, he is great. but girls find the alpha confidence thing attractive in a dumb way, and then they realize later that the guy isn't worth the trouble. Sad to say, but some guys can be ABSOLUTE worthless bums and she'll still fall for him because of his "charm" Personally the most attractive thing is when a guy can stand on his own too feet, be confident in who he is and not care that some people may not like him, provide for himself, do his own thing, have the disciple to say no to pressure or others in general. But ALSO being a really sweet caring guy......Even if he is dense ^^

See, nothing you said conflicts with what i said. Especially your last sentences. They support what i said 100% Like i said, whole package. How do i know all this? Because I am one of those whole package guys that isn't a jerk. Yes this is Shameless Self Validation.

XD thats alright as long as a man can back up his words then its okay, also a man should never leave his woman in silence for more than 2 days. she'll die of worrying

@roukuro reply 2 first post after mine: combine what we both said and we just described the warning flags for spotting a sociopath. (That however does not mean every alpha dog is one.)